ANSWERS: 7
  • Can you give us the gist of what you disagreed about?
  • If you're not sorry for what you did, then apologize for upsetting her and offer to talk it out. Usually, when you give people time to get over it they don't. They may ignore it and it will come up later or they let it fester and get angrier at you for the conversations they have in their head. At least tell her how you feel and let her take the next step.
  • I would try to get the point across- work is work and friendship is friendship. She needs to learn the difference between work and social time... Its harder for some people than others to accept that needs to happen
  • Either way I would let her get over it. You have emailed her and she has not responded. There is nothing else you could do. Wait for her to come to you and tell you why she is angry. You have done all you can.
  • One disagreement and she stops talking to you? That's when friends are supposed to keep talking to work things out..she pulls away and refuses to do that. Hmmm..how long has she been a close friend? What did you disagree about? Seems like a very odd reaction to me. Do you think you were wrong to do/say what you did? Is this a pattern in your relationship? Is anything else going on in her life that would make her over react? You could say you're sorry that she took it that way, but why would you be sorry about stating an opinion? :)
  • let her get over it, and when she eventually 'forgives you, you could remind her that ppl shouldnt mix business with pleasure?
  • I hate games- they should not happen at work. Since she is your friend, don't be ashamed and be direct and walk into her office or workspace and ask her what's up. If you are uncomfortable about it, get one of your common friends to intervene.

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