ANSWERS: 4
  • Because you were being petty and selfish. Children are not an "investment," for those who have the personality to love and nurture them. Obviously you are not one of those people. But, kudos to you for warning your gf about your lack of paternal instinct up front.
  • Because she disagreed with you. She wants kids. you don't. It made her upset that you would choose money over kids.
  • Is this a trick question? The reason is that her expectations are different from yours, and she wants a different kind of life than you do. From her point of view, your plan looks selfish, because she sees having children as an important part of life. I see nothing wrong with your plan. I believe you have done the right thing by breaking up with her. There are many other women who would love to meet with you and share your dreams.
  • you have a good retirement future and children too.

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