BFF dates bro, parents hate girl b4 and even more now, think it's my fault; yell at me.I ask him to stop, he says no, I ask her, as a friend, she refuses.She broke my family up.Now I really need her to end it b4 worse happens, what should I do? More below
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Ok here's the whole story. So, b/c the girl is a whore, and everyone knows, my parents don't want them together. My parents faught about it enough that my bro is moving out of the house and my mom is considering divorce. I asked the girl once to end it and she said no and that I was being selfish even after I told her why. They acted as if they had broken up but they are still together and I know that soon my parents will find out b/c my bro's b-day is coming up and having all my friends over b/c they are now "his friends" too and I know one will say something b/c they are all against the relationship too. What should I do to get her to understand how much she's hurting me?
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It's hard to answer, because even after reading your explanation I fail to see how this is her fault. She's dating your brother, and because she's a "whore", it's tearing your family apart? If that's the explanation you're giving her, I can see why she wouldn't understand your predicament - because it makes no sense to me, either.
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Your brother is 20. He is an adult. He is old enough to make his own decisions. You cannot stop him from dating her and neither can your parents. It sounds to me like your mom was looking for an excuse to divorce your dad anyway. I could be wrong, though. Out of everyone involved, I think I feel the most for you. You're stuck in this mess, even though none of it is your fault. Don't think it is. Don't let them get to you. I know it will be hard because of everything that is happening around you. Remember that you used to consider this girl your good friend. If your brother already knows what this girl is like, and he still wants to be with her, then he will have to learn on his own time if this is the girl he wants to be with.
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I think you need to grow up. If she were a 'whore' then why is she your best friend? And your brother has the right to date whomever he wants. It's not YOUR place to tell them no.
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get away from it and talk to someone you can trust.counselor or church.
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tell her as a friend that she should end it because your brother is going to wind up hating her because the family is tering apart, (though if this is not how it is just tell her like it is with out puting her as the only problem). if this doesn't work try talking to your brother and only tell the truth. make sure he undersands that the family is coming a part because he has chose to date this girl. ask him if she is realy worth his family. guilt him with the truth and c if that works. if this doesn't work i am sorry thats all i can think of just remebuer w/ the girl makesure you explain it with out lieing but also with out making her the only problem make her see wat she has done and is doing
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