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  • Make the best of the time you do have with her and look forward to a time when she is able to break from her studies. I know, easier said than done. A few choices: 1. Continue to respect her devotion to her studies and be genuinely understanding. Her studies are her priority at the moment and I can't say I blame her. The fact that she does make time for you means she is interested, but needs to keep her focus on studying. Think about what I said above about appreciating and making the most of the time you two spend together. 2. Discuss it with her and let her know that you would like to either spend more time with her or at least have a few conversations that last longer than 5 minutes. Make sure she understands that you respect her focus on her studies and do not wish to hinder her doing so. See if she is willing to make a litte extra time for you so that both of you feel like you are getting what you want/need out of the relationship. 2. If you don't like playing second fiddle, then perhaps she is not the girl for you. Break it off gently without being critical of her prioritization. It's nothing personal after all. Hope this helps.
  • Sometimes I find the best answer to a question is what other people have done. From my experience, she has to show she cares and is grateful that you are respecting her studies. My gf places her studies first all the time, and i see her now only on a weekly basis recently, and we talk maybe every other day. How do we keep it going? Well its a question of love. We both respect each other's time and we tell each other that. We also make sure with each other that its okay that we are not spending much time because of work. She has to show interest in your feelings. If she hasn't asked how your feeling lately, then tell her. If you get a cold response, then its time to assess your relationship and talk it out with her. As long as she knows you miss her, and SHE misses you, then there is nothing to worry about. Be patient. If the same story goes on way longer than you've expected, then it would definitely time to assess the relationship. No body wants to sitt around waiting all the time. Remember: Don't jump to any conclusions. It could just end up backfiring horribly. Good luck.
  • Give her time. She is just trying to make something of herself right now. I know she is incredibly hot, but you will have plenty of time for that later and it will be fantastic!
  • wow, i think you're gonna need more space to ask a question like that and get good advice as there's more details that we should know... anyhow, i guess the bottom line is: what do you need out of a relationship? *and* what can the other person provide, realistically? maybe she change and do a bit more, or maybe she can't. or, maybe she doesn't want to... ulitimately, this is where you need to decide what exactly works for you. this may require some "getting to know yourself", which can be a bitch, honestly.
  • Give her time, that's good she is devoted to her studies.
  • you either care enough to be happy with that amount or say wait this is not working for me nothing personal and move on.
  • make her dinner every night and eat with her.... it will give her more time to study and the 2 of you more time together.
  • Dump her and find yourself a sleezebag. :-)
  • Well I would do 1 of 2 things 1). Ask her if you can join her, and help her in her studies If maybe you guys can go out and get some food at a cafe and do some flashcards or something She might appreciate the help and you both would be getting to hang out more 2). Break up with her; what is a girlfriend that doesn't have time for you? She's, in the literal sense, only a girlfriend

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