eehh its tricky. just get alot of foreplay going, and then after awhile just say "lets take this farther" if he is a normal guy, of course he will be willing to and say yes. just be safe =]

tell him. be honest with things, and you'll be shy/embarassed, but you'll quickly find that it was shy over nothing. Take it slow, find out what you like/don't like (both of you) and you'll enjoy it a lot more than a "wham, bam, thank-you-mam"

Just go up to him, or move along the couch or whatever and kiss him, and if it seems like your just kissing rub your hand up his leg. He should get the picture :L

Are both of you, TEENS? If so, DON'T!!!!!!

It is my belief that you are not ready if you feel so *nervous*. Give it some time playing around a little and get used to that first, IF YOU KNOW HE IS THE RIGHT ONE TO GIVE YOUR VIRGINITY TO. You should feel totally comfortable with the guy you give your virginity to. Be very careful who you choose to give yourself to! If I passed a cookie around the room and everyone touched it with dirty hands and then asked you to take a bite of it, would you do it? The same goes with sex. Choose your partner wisely! Respect your body and give it only to the one who loves you and is willing to put in lots of effort and time showing you how much he loves you first! If he loves you, he will wait until you aren't so nervous and feel more comfortable with no problem. Sex is not hard. It comes naturally. If you are only nervous because you aren't sure what to do once you start, understand that their is no set rules on *how* you do it. You just go with the flow and you will see the very first time that going with the flow is not hard at all and that being so scared was a bit hyped up [if you are in a relationship with someone who cares about you and makes you feel comfortable].