ANSWERS: 8
  • Neither. He's your ex, grow up already.
  • I think you should communicate your expectations to your friend, yes. To me, it would be difficult to remain friends with someone if they dated an ex I still had feelings for. But if the ex was bad news, she'd be welcome to him. Perhaps you have chosen the wisest course to ignore them. Make sure you keep this up when she asks for advice about him. "I'm sorry, when you chose to date my ex, I chose not to become involved."
  • Well if this helps i would just wait and see what happens, and then if they end up going out i know i will hurt but show that it does not hurt you and it will show them that your a good friend! most likley if the do go out they will not last long at all in most cases!
  • You don't own your ex. How is it your friend's fault if he said he wants to date her anyway?
  • My, we're a spiteful little bitch, aren't we? Just ignore her now, she's better off without you.
  • tell her now. if she knows ahead of time how you feel and still dates him then shes NOT a good friend. no one should date a friends ex, its wierd and disgusting. if she cant find someone else on her own and shes got to pick up your leftovers theres something seriously wrong w/ her and u need a better friend. dont just ignore her tho, youll be just as bad as her! but dont feel obligated to be her friend if she ends up dating him either.
  • sounds like you may still have feelings for your ex. It may be tough for you to be around but you do not get to choose who likes whom. I agree with rookat you should just take a deep breath and see what happens, but get on with your life. You did not say it was a best friend so maybe you can talk with her about it and make plans to keep yourself busy and not think about it.
  • Why don't you just talk to your friend and tell her that you would be hurt if she did date him...why play these games?

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