I have problems wanting sex or sexual things all the time and my boyfriend doesnt want it everyday but I feel like I go nuts if I dont get it at least once a day. What should I do?
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Some guys just can't do it that often I'm afraid to say, and making it obvious that he is not satisfying you will only have one result - even less sex because he will be concious of it and more self aware and will do the whole "well I'm not having sex with you now because it would be like I'm only doing it because you said something so I can't win" scenario. I would find other ways of feeding your appetite - masturbation, pornography and such like. If that's still not enough you have three options: 1) Cheat (not recommended!), 2) Find a new partner who can satisfy you, 3) Have counselling for sex addiction. You might even want to do either 1 or 2, and 3 to be honest.
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Sex Isn't all about him taking care of your over active sexual needs. It's also about you finding ways to take care of your own sexual needs, Like self-stimulation, masturbation, however it's done. And even he can learn to stimulate your lovely, sexy body without any added physical or emotional strain on his part. There are all kinds of dildos, artificial penises, that won't let you down, you might like to try one of those fancy electric-jobs,vibrator. But it just comes down to this, No Man is a sex machine. We may take a licking but, Sexually,we don't keep on ticking.
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i have the same problem. and im sitting here crying over it now! we fight because hes "tired" and stressed. WHICH he is. But Im supposed to take the load for it? its been actually 4 days since we had sex. ive been waiting patiently. and tonight i let him have it. im pissed.
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I'll presume that you've told your boyfriend that your sexual needs are not being met. I think you have to make sure he's aware of your unmet needs, of course. I would recommend that you seek another lover, or more than one other lover. The time to have other lovers is when you're unmarried, and free to explore your options. If your boyfriend is not meeting your needs and he's aware that he is not meeting your needs, then you have every right to seek satisfaction elsewhere. Protect yourself, and be careful. Good luck!
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It could just be a high sex drive on your part, but what it sounds like it could be is you are using sex as a mechanism to fill a personal void within yourself. You may want to do some self reflection to see what may be the cause to desire so much sex.
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If this is not something you want to break up over then you need to learn to take care of matters on your own..buy toys :)
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I don't think any two people have matched sex drives. We don't have the same needs for food, or sleep, so it's not surprising that we don't have the same needs for sex. I've had gf's who were rarely interested, and others who wore me out and left me with a limp noodle. One partner always seems to want it more often than the other. It wasn't too long ago that "nice girls" *never* admitted that they wanted sex. Thank god, all the "nice girls" are long gone. :) My best sex adventures always happen when I'm *not* in a monogamous relationship. Then I'm not trying to match the sex drive of any one person. Obviously, that has its problems, too.
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Dang, I like girls such as you. When I was in my 20's I dreamed of having a girl like you and my ex wife was one of those every other week kind. I pounded my penis many times back then, even in bed with her. VERY UNSATISFYING and eventually lead to our divorce indirectly. I ended up in an affair with a girl who was very horny and that ruined my marriage. Ok, lesson learned there, don't screw around. Well ,as things go, she ended up marrying guy who initially was good to her sexually. Then they had a kid together and he stopped doing her..!! Which was trauma to her because she really has a high sex drive and in bed is second to very few. She had a boy toy for a number of years and eventually he left. Now, she just deals with it. The guy she's married to, while he's a eunuch, is very compatible with her on every other level. So, her toy plugs into the wall and dims the lights in the neighborhood when she turns it. Down the street a question can be heard, "honey, what's that buzzing noise?"
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Okay, I don't think wanting it once a day is having a high sex drive! That seems pretty reasonable. I think it's when your partner seems to never be satisfied is when it's more of a problem. My partner and I used to have sex 5 or 6 times a day. Now we are down to once a day. I don't see how anyone would want someone that much with out getting bored! I am a woman and my lover is excellent and have been told that by many, but I am bored!
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Well you could try someone like me who would never say no to sex with you ;) Hard to say you either have 2 choices stay with him and try to figure out how to get him to be horny to have sex once a day which might not work and you will have to face the fact that you wont get to have sex everyday or you can find another guy who has a simialr sex drive as you Or the last option is once you guys devople some trust you could have a open relationship where you guys still date but you get to sleep with other guys (most guys would be keen to do this but it only works if you have trust and are honest with each other)
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Date a real man
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Ask him, if he is willing watch as you masturbate. It might just encourage him to join in more than he is now. Don't hide it from him. Just talk it out. Hopefully, he undestands.
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