I'm absolutely in love with my best friend. She just makes me want to be a better person. We get along so well, & if I were forced to make the decision now, I'd marry her in a heartbeat. We have such a good friendship though. Should I risk telling her?...
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If you don't tell her how you feel, you're going to regret it. The most of what you regret out of life are what you don't do, or don't say. Besides, she's going to find out sooner or later. Love is one thing you can't hide. Go get her!
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Tell her but assure her that you can still be friends. Don't make her feel that if she does not feel the same way, there is something wrong.
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Be careful! Things may never be the same again if you tell her.
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well here's your choice: live as her best friend in torment for the rest of forever, but marry somebody else and possibly be happy. take a chance with her (after cleverly ensuring her feelings are similar) and pursue a relationship. get married & live in eternal bliss or break up and lose your best friend possibly forever. no advice here, just giving you possible scenarios.
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uhmm.... well if you ask me.... i think you should tell her what you feel for her.... uhmm... because we don't know if she might have loved you too ryt? and you two had been friends for a long time and she might developed a feeling of love for you that she has been keeping inside for a long time....^_^
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I see in your profile that you are female. It's a bit confusing.... You'd marry her? Two questions then.... . -You're a seventeen year old female Right? -You're interested in your best friend, a female. Right?
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I would heed the advice and reflect. In the end, you have to decide to change for yourself. We all have quirks, and probably won't change or don’t want to. As far as the marriage deal, your question is confusing. Regardless, you always take risk telling someone you love them and are in the danger zone going right to marriage in the same conversation. Especially if they do not feel the same way.
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tell her! you will regret it for the rest of your life if you dont and you will always be thinking what if? you cant hide love so im sure she already knows so that will make it easier for you to tell her. but one thing i do say is you must be 120% sure that you will be great as a couple and can last. and make sure you tell her before you ask her that even if she doesnt feel the same way your friendship will not change at all otherwise she may feel pressured and scared. i wish you the best of luck i really do!
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