Would you tell the wife of a man you are having an affair with for the second time about it? Knowing that she found out 1st time & took him back. U want to be with him but know this action would prob do more harm than good for your relationship.

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• He went back because I let him down and he felt he had to make it work because he had nothing else (well that's what he told me). He says nothing has really changed for their relationship before we got involved. So would you tell his wife for her sake but also because of how I'm feeling about him? I love him despite what is going on! Maybe his wife will feel the same way?!?

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  by Anonymous on April 8th, 2008

• Hi, BUT he still went back. That's the only truth you can truly know. I don't think it's your place to tell her. If you really honestly were concerned for her sake you'd walk away :)
  Whether it seems good or bad - it's still *their* marriage to sort out. And nothing you can do or say will force his hand unless he's ready too. I'm not looking at this from an 'anti-other woman' perspective fwiw. Kind regards.

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  by somewhere Pll loves her dawgy on April 8th, 2008

• Thanks. What does fwiw mean?

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  by Anonymous on April 8th, 2008

• for what it's worth :)

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  by somewhere Pll loves her dawgy on April 8th, 2008