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  • His wife took him back? He also went back! What's going to change this time?
  • No. If he had worked it out with her the first time, it should be obvious that he intends to stay with her and you are only a "side interest". If it were me, I wouldn't knowingly be involved with a married man or one who is in a relationship, but IF I found myself in that situation, I would end the relationship and say nothing to the wife. Remember also...if they will do it with you, chances are very good that they will do it to you.
  • No, whether you want to be with him or not, his wife is a REAL person with REAL feelings....you can't just write a letter that could possibly shatter her world just to possibly get him to be with you. That is really, really hateful. It sounds to me like this other woman deserves to know who she married, but it would be horrible to find out in a letter from his mistress, especially considering your motives.

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