ok, i know this is hard but it sounds like this man knows that he has you on a leash and is keeping you dangling. he doesnt wanna completely let you go incase anyone else might have you, but he doesn't wanna commit, incase he can't have someone else and be available incase something better comes along. i know that isn't the answer you want to hear, but im telling you, you are in for nothing but hardship with this man. why do you feel compelled to keep him in your life. if you would just be strong and YOU end it with him, you would be leaving yourself open to meet someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated. with respect and love. if this man really loves you, he would pull out all the stops to get you back and promise commitment. i dont think he will.this man doesn't love you.. you need to think more of yourself. heartache is difficult, but it ain't impossible to get over. in time, it will be like he never existed. give yourself a chance to meet someone who will give you what you want. Dump this man!!

Crushes suck man. Do you have any other interests you can commit your time to so that you can keep your mind on other things?

Realize your 15 and its natural and stand back and not just look at reality, look at what is really going on instead.

Propose she is just an expendable image within the mural of your life, structure can still be supported despite her non-existence.

You are the only one that can control your emotions. Take a deep calming breath. Look around you. There are many girls out there.

Uh, guys, this one did not need to be merged. Now we have a gender mix-up!

Read this sentence twenty or so times. Maybe even fifty. HE DOESN'T LOVE YOU.

I say let him see you moving on, maybe take a friend out for lunch, that will get his attention. but if not he may be leading you on and have no intention of ever sharing your love. its a bad spot. but I know where your at. good luck and hey if all else fails remember you dont need him to be happy, cause all hes giving you now is greif

This is not an answer to this question, but a question with seeking answers. I was with a guy for 3 years, but for 2 years it was a long distance relationship since I went to college in a different state. He was really protective and loving, but with time I realized that he was controlling. My friends use to say that he was not a very nice guy and that he is controlling me. I tried to break off with him but I couldn't do that. I moved in with him after graduation, lived with him for 6 months, but we had fights and decided to move out seperately. After we moved out, we still met and hung out. I spend the night at his house and did things with him. Everytime I tried to break up with him I couldn't. Finally I asked him to stop talkin to me and he did. We didn't speak for 2 months. I started dating this other guy, but realized that I still loved my ex. So I broke up with that guy because I did not want to hurt him. I just couldn't bare up the pain missing my ex, so I decided to call him, and I did. He wants to be with me and actually cried asking me to be with him. I still love him too, but my parents do not like this and mostly im scared to be with him because he was controlling and slighty abusive. I just cannot forget him, I love him a lot. I am confused and do not know what to do. My friends and family advised me not be with him, but all I think is about him. I need an answer, I don't know what to do anymore. Do I forget him becuase of his past or be with him regardless of what everyone says?

This is not an answer to this question, but a question with seeking answers. I was with a guy for 3 years, but for 2 years it was a long distance relationship since I went to college in a different state. He was really protective and loving, but with time I realized that he was controlling. My friends use to say that he was not a very nice guy and that he is controlling me. I tried to break off with him but I couldn't do that. I moved in with him after graduation, lived with him for 6 months, but we had fights and decided to move out seperately. After we moved out, we still met and hung out. I spend the night at his house and did things with him. Everytime I tried to break up with him I couldn't. Finally I asked him to stop talkin to me and he did. We didn't speak for 2 months. I started dating this other guy, but realized that I still loved my ex. So I broke up with that guy because I did not want to hurt him. I just couldn't bare up the pain missing my ex, so I decided to call him, and I did. He wants to be with me and actually cried asking me to be with him. I still love him too, but my parents do not like this and mostly im scared to be with him because he was controlling and slighty abusive. I just cannot forget him, I love him a lot. I am confused and do not know what to do. My friends and family advised me not be with him, but all I think is about him. I need an answer, I don't know what to do anymore. Do I forget him becuase of his past or be with him regardless of what everyone says?