Romantically speaking, have you ever "grown to love" someone or "found someone attractive" over time? Someone you inititally weren't interested in whatsoever?
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Teasdale
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Yes! Statistically, these types of attachments tend to last longer.
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Yes I have. I worked with a girl once who I was not overly attracted to at first. She wasn't un-attractive she just wasn't really my type. We worked closely together and the more I got to know her the more attractive I found her. We ended up living together for over 3 years.
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Yes. When I first met my s/o, it was in a work environment and I was at that time in a relationship. I asked if he minded whether or not I smoked on his post, and he responded Yes, and refused to let me light up! After about a month on shift together, I casually asked him if he wanted to do a group thing with other coworkers on our next break day to which he responded "it's a date". When we and two other coworkers went to breakfast, we were sitting next to eachother and when someone made a joke we turned to eachother laughing and at that moment my eyes met his and we instantly fell in love. I had been finding myself increasingly attracted to him and I realized that in the month leading up to our relationship, we were actually getting to know eachother, and that "moment" was the culmination of what turned into the beautiful and loving relationship I'm in today.
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That's the way it works best.
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