I have been celebate for quite a while, I'm single, but have always been sexy, flirty and pretty active in bed. I just don't really care one way or another. Should I see a Dr. or something? I get offers, but don't feel like it. I'm starting to wonder.
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Mary Margaret
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G'day Mary Margaret, Thank you for your question. If you're happy being celibate, that's OK. If you'd like to start a relatiosnship, then you may want to seek help. Regards
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Yes, that's what I was thinking, but the longer I go without, the more difficult its gonna be, I am older, but still very attractive and young spirited... I don't know, maybe I've have enough sex to last a lifetime, I did grow up in the 60's, and graduated in 1970. Lots of stuff going on.....
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I guess it depends on how you feel about it. If you want to have sex etc then see a Doc.....I lost my partner two years ago and although I think I am ready to find another companion, I am like you and just don't feel like going to bed with anyone. I have been seeing a chap for three months and he is keen to take things a step further, but the more he pressurises me and infers that I am abnormal and need a shrink the more I back away. He tries to analys what is wrong with me, and the latest is almost a blackmail in that he will get prostate cancer if he doesn't have sex. I am 54 and have lost my partner of 10 years and my ex husband and my Dad. For me it may be just that, still grieving. Has anything traumatic happened in your life? To sum it up, if you are worried about yourself, see a doc....if you are not, then enjoy life the way you want to. xx
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There are Soooooo many things that affect a woman's sex drive, MM. I'm not entirely convinced that there is actually anything worng with you. I think that when you find that certain someone who flips your switch you will react as normally as though nothing had happened in the interim. It is always a good idea to go for an annual physical exam and a pap, especially if it has been awhile since you went. Request a blood panel be done to check for abnormalities.
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