ANSWERS: 13
  • You should just tell her. That way she can dump you... or forgive you. But it's unfair to let her believe a lie.
  • you should look at yourself and your relationship wit your girlfriend. it doesn't look like a distant relationship is going to work for you. intoxication is not an excuse. you still knew what you were doing.
  • Sounds like this one could be doomed? You don't say that she has gone away temporarily or how long you were together, the only thing you do say is that you miss having her around...unfortunately not enough to keep it in yer pants! Fess up, be honest and both of you should move on; I'm guessing you would probably do it again because it sounds like you are feeling awkward about the honesty and not guilty about the situation.
  • Sounds like you have screwed up. You will have to come clean in fairness to her and accept the consequences. Remember intoxication is never an excuse for cheating.
  • Bad medicine man, but you should man up and just tell her it sucks but you gotta ask yourself was it really an accident.. cause lying to a girls only a quick fix solution, it doesnt work
  • Ok I know I may get down rated for this but unless you do want to break up with her I wouldnt tell her. If you accept the massive mistake you have made and learn from it you should live with the guilt. I can honestly say that if my boyfriend made a drunken mistake and cheated on me I would not want to know. I wouldnt break up with him because of it and it would tarnish the relationship for a long time. However, if this is an ongoing thing then you should break up with her because you dont want to be with her. But I still wouldnt tell her, why hurt her like that and make your mistake make her distrust all men (at least for a while!).
  • you're a weak person, tell her if you have any balls, if you dont your GUTLESS
  • if alcohol induces a sexcaped then your in the clear the first time DO NOT TELL HER ANYTHING, but if happens again then you must come clean - good luck
  • Been cheated on so I'll tell you my advice. Tell her.. or else she'll definitely find out some other way and she'll despise you for keeping it from her. Be a man.. and give her some respect starting now. Tell her. A person doesn't learn until they face the hard consequences. If you don't confess, it will soften you up and desensitize you into thinking that your little randez-vous wasn't all that terrible.. and perhaps a second time won't be so bad.. By the way, since when was being intoxicated an excuse to fool around with girls? When you tell your girlfriend that you cheated, you better give it to her honestly. She will see through you and tell you that drinking was no excuse. Those who find excuses for their faults don't really want to apologize.. they're trying to put their blame elsewhere and not taking full responsibility. Take that responsibility and give her an opportunity to be with a man that deserves her.
  • What does "messed around" include? You let the alcohol do the talking And now, your girlfriend may be walking Does this sum it up? At least you have a conscience. Let it go, if nothing serious happened. Never again let this happen. Your girlfriend may discover you and you will not have to tell her.
  • Dont tell her duh
  • The best thing you can do is tell her what happened because if she finds out she gonna be furious. I hope your happy place is barricaded.

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