Hey i am th3 same way..you will just have to trust her..because if you say she cant hangout with them she will get mad at you

You can gouge your eyes out so you don't feel jealous. If that doesn't sound like fun you can just relax in the comfort that she is your girlfriend and not some other guy's gal. Hopefully these "guys" she hangs out with are gay or have girlfriends.

Do you not trust the guys she hangs out with? I know that there are a lot of guys who trust their girlfriends, but they just don't trust other guys. Anyway, what should you do? Well, perhaps you should just realize that she is your girlfriend and she doesn't go out very much. That says a lot in her favour.

Find out if u have a trust issue with her or the ppl she is with. If she has done something in the past to discourage your trust then i suggest u tell her how u feel. BUT if she doesnt go out much then i think she may want to be with u all the time...but just needs a break. Best sol..talk 2 her bout it

You stop by putting trust in yourself. If you feel that the guys that she hangs around with are better for her than you are you have every right to feel threatened by them. You have to see yourself as more than a boyfriend. You should be a boyfriend, a listener a friend and a best friend if you can. Having a jealous boyfriend will only pushes her away. Jealousy is frowned upon and seen as a weakness that women do not like. Sure it's flattering at first but that wears off quickly and becomes a great reason to break off the relationship. There is nothing worse than being embarrassed by some guy who is irate with jealousy. It's not cute and won't get you what you want. It only makes you looks weak and out of control.

hey..ur gal loves u more than herself..i can say that cos i knw her personally...thers nothing in this world thats more important to her than u..she wil do anything to spend even a sec vth u...other guys are nothing to her,..all she cares abt is you..she loves you....and shes damn crazy abt u....trust her...

It helps to realise that you can't control other people (they always end up doing what they want anyway)and if you could control them, it would take all the fun out of a relationship.Try to become more self-confident and you won't be as jealous.

Why not try to get to know her friends. Go along with her to meet them. Make them your friends as well. :-D

Jealousy is actually a lack of trust. If your girlfriend has never given you reason to mistrust her, try talking to yourself about why she is trustworthy.

I am a female who most of my life has had more male friends then female. I found early on that girls were catty and competitive with other girls. They would say they were my friend and I find out the cruel things said to others about me. I never understood that. With being "one of the guys" I knew where they were coming from most of the time. Jealousy will only hurt your relationship. If she wanted to be with one of her guy friends, you wouldn't be in the picture because that is where she would be. Have faith in yourself and your relationship.

What you are saying is that you don't trust HER around other guys, regardless of the "spin" you try to put on it by saying that you trust HER, but not other guys. Takes TWO to tango, dude. : )

Do you ever "go out with her" yourself? We, as men, dread the idea of going "dancing" or whatever, unless we are single. Sometimes making a little effort to do what she likes can go a long way (assuming you are not already doing this). Anyway, jealousy is poisonous and completely unnecessary. Regardless of how you may feel victimized by it and seemingly not in control of it, IT IS A CHOICE.

I can't tell you what will work for you; I can only say what works for me now. I can also applaud you for wanting to change this negative aspect of your personality, and wish you success in that endeavor. First, you have to have a girl / woman whom you know doesn't want to cheat, and won't. Next, you have to be the same kind of guy, someone to whom cheating -- even if he knew he could "get away with it" -- would be wrong, and for that reason just not done. Period. After that it's easy. You just have to love her, and let her know that she's loved. It helps to keep in mind that if she's the kind of woman who would cheat on you, then she's unworthy of you and not worth the aggravation or upset -- you deserve someone who deserves you. Finally, and this might be a tough one to manage, I realize, if you love her you will want what's best for her. That includes that she should have the best man she can win, too. I've told my girlfriend that if she meets a man she thinks is better, and decides after time that he is, then I'll let her go without a fight. The only things that I have asked her are: to not do that behind my back, and to let me know in advance so that I can "meet or beat the competition". I've told her -- she's in retail so this rings with her -- I just want her to help me with market research if she's checking out the marketplace. She's in total agreement, and not checking the marketplace. That agreement between us has helped us to maintain totally open communication on these lines, and even though we have a long-distance relationship and don't get to see each other nearly often enough, we're each sure in the fidelity of the other, even though the opportunities are certainly there for each of us to stray, if that was our intent. I know she doesn't. "Knowing" demolishes jealousy.

You deserve a pat on the back for you're honesty! also you ask how do you make it stop? from reading you're question making you're jelousy stop! You're halfway there now.You're in control when you feel the jealousy,you stop yourself getting angry.thats the best start eva.well done to you.

You know your problem, so just stop your self from becoming paranoid unnecessarily. A relationship is like a walk together across a park on a beautiful day. You walk together and if at any point for whatever reason you want to go separate ways you let go of each other. If it ends badly it'll have it's reasons, don't give it reasons. If it ends good, then that's a walk to remember and you both come out of it stronger. If it doesn't end, you may have just got lucky there. :) BTW, don't forget you're already walking with her.