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  • I would recomend counciling for him, if he is willing that is a sure sign that he wants to change.
  • I'm sorry but no you'll never be able to fully trust him. You'll always have doubts.
  • FORGET IT ITS OVER ....
  • He has admitted he made a mistake. The only way this can work is if you don't constantly remind him of this mistake. If you're are going to make it work, forgiveness is a must, not forget, but to forgive. I wish you luck, and it can work. Good for you not to throw away your relationship on human weakness!!! If it's worth saving and you can get past this......I say go for it!:)
  • I'm afraid you will not be able to work it out. You will always have the thought of it in your mind, maybe not all the time, but anything can trigger it and it will make you sick to your stomach. I am going through the same thing, my Girlfriend is cheating on me, she says she isn't, but I know for a fact she still is. I am ready to kick her out. It is eating me up inside, I cannot sleep good, eat good, I am not happy, I try to do stuff which makes me happy, but it just does not work. I used to go to sleep late and watch TV while she slept as she worked earlier than I and I let her have the bed to herself sometimes, but now we sleep together every night and I no longer watch the TV. I changed my ways to suit her, but I've realized she is still cheating; she has not stopped & I do not deserve this. I would seperate & find someone better; if not, it will kill you physically and/or emotionally.
  • Let's hope it's not worse than the first time but you will never know unless you try. Yes, it is possible to regain the trust but it takes a long time (perhaps longer than it took the first time) and depends on whether or not that's what you both want to do. If it is, then you both have to work at it - he has to regain your trust and earn it back again and you have to let him do that without throwing the past back at him whenever you can. Not easy but not an impossible task. How about some marriage counselling (together) - it's probably about the best place to start.
  • i was in the same situation and im still trying to learn how to trust him,and i will tell you we argue alot now..but to each its own maybe you can get pass it.
  • Yes you can trust him, at least in MOST things, and the 2nd time around CAN be better. If you both know what caused the ... indescretion ... you may be able to work on that aspect of your relationship. It IS possible to get past an infidelity. (BTDT) You MUST forgive him, and he must forgive himself, though. Note I did NOT say you or he will EVER forget. It CAN fade to the backs of your minds, though, if you allow it to. You CANNOT bring it up whenever you have an arguement, though. Forgiveness DOES mean you won't do that. Your trust will rebuild, as I said, in at least MOST things. You will still worry if/when the same type situation occurs, but if he's sincere, and YOU are sincere, the second time around CAN be better. Good luck. ;-)
  • Whether you'll be able to trust him or not depends on what HE (not you) is doing to regain your trust back. Just admitting to the cheating doesn't mean he will never do it again. He has to know why he cheated in the first place and he needs to come up with a way to prevent it from happening again. If after he has done all he can to regain your trust and you are still haunted by it, then you will either have to learn how to overcome this or let him go.
  • He's a man ... need to say more. Don't try to understand it. Its a men's thing. It doesnt mean that he doesnt love you. Its on you to decide if that is so important to you. as I sad so many times before, you dont own anybody.

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