ANSWERS: 4
  • You should never force someone who does not want to have children to have them. If your boyfriend does not want children and you do, then this should be a very strong clue that he may not be for you. This is what dating is for. To find out if you and a potential mate are suited for each other. Really talk this out with your boyfriend as Auntie Em suggested. However, if he just does not want children, don't expect him to want them later. Either accept the idea that you won't have children if you marry him or move on and find someone else who is a better fit for you.
  • Im in the same situation, except my man is 9 years older and already has 3 kids to a previous women (who dont live with him). He thinks he may not want kids and time for me is running out. But funny enough I dont know if I will even want kids, Im 28 now and its not a priority now, but it may be down the track. But I love my man very dearly. It freaks me out as well.
  • it makes me cry to hear my boyfriend of two yeas tell me this he doesnt want any kids, and he has a kid from a woman who is a piece of shit. I am 28 years old myself and would like a kid in the future but not now. But when my time comes will his answer change? This can destroy us, and it makes me sad.
  • Any woman planning her future with the plans including a man changing his mind is setting herself up for disappointment. It is much more likely that you will find another boyfriend who shares your feelings towards children than it is that your boyfriend will change his mind.

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