Is it worth making her mad just so she will leave me because I cant say the words?
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LostOne101
ANSWERS: 35
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No. Be a man and do it yourself.
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Thats one way to do it, but if you do it that way you will never get to tell her what is on your mind, which may bother you later.
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One should avoid burning bridges. You may have to cross it again.
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That's up to you, but it's not a mature way to end a relationship. You had enough guts to ask her out and develop a relationship, muster up the guts to let her go with dignity. Hurting someone you once cared for, or making them mad, isn't what you really want to do is it?
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Absolutely not... If the feelings are gone or you don't want to be in the relationship, you need to own up to it and end it. By making her upset you are only hurting her and dragging the situation out longer then it needs to be, say to her what you need to say and make a nice clean break so she can heal.
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Write her a letter explaining everything that is on your mind. But sit with her while she reads it, dont just leave it for her to find.
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its not worth it. if you dont want the relationship try to end it on good terms so you can at least maintain a friendship. whos to say you wont miss her when she's gone? and if you hurt her feelings bad she might not come back.
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No, that is a really cruel thing to do and I would strongly advise against it
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Man up!!!! You are a man, right? Act like it.
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Come on now...you don't want to be a coward..you will feel so much better about yourself and the end of your relationship if you do it in a respectful, face to face manner.
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No. It's cowardly and unfair to her. And, if just making her mad will make her leave you, then, might as well just say it, because, seems like she might not care all that much anyway.
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No. Man up, say what you need to say, and cope with the fallout. It will go faster and be less painful for everyone involved.
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Take your skirt off and be a man! If you piss her off so she leaves, that is the same as lying to her.
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Well, no that's not really the right thing to do. I imagine that's the fun way to do it though.
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Just tell her,you yellow-bellied varmint!
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Suck it up and do what you have to do. I had to break up with my boyfriend of three years because I knew we both agreed it was time to end it, but I also knew he'd never have the balls to do the deed. It was totally the right decision. We're both happier now and we're still best friends. It's not that you can't say the words. It's that you don't want to. Be honest with yourself and be honest with her. Good luck.
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Abso-freakin-lutely.
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No. At least have the decency to tell her the truth. Surely you owe her that much.
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Yeah I have done that it works pretty well, and sometimes it is necessary.
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To do that would make you a coward.
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No. if you can't say the words, it suggests you still have *some sort* of feelings for her-- are you sure you want to mangle it so badly as to not have a chance again?
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Pushing someone over the edge so they break up with you is childish. Maybe you shouldn't be in a relationship if this is the route you wish to take. Grow some balls and bow out gracefully and don't put the onus on the other person.
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Be a man, and tell her straight up.
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NO> If you can't say the words because you don't want to hurt her. Imagine what it would feel like to be treated so badly by you...to the point where she wants to leave. That's really not fair. Breaking up is hard to do (just like the song says) but if you need to do it, just do it. You will both be better off.
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Guys do that a lot & it's a lot worse than just coming right out and having the conversation. And you shouldn't completely destroy her opinion of you before you break up. Leave with a little dignity for goodness sake.
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hell no if you don't like her anymore tell her and i mean it. i will be mad at you if you don't asshole
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If you want to break up with her, just do it. Be a man, not a weenie.
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it is the loser way out, man up and tell her. You will love yourself in the morning.
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hmm, thats not the best thing. Just say what you feel, because she will get hurt either way.
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be a man and TELL her COWARD!
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Sorry, Man Up friend, use the balls god gave you
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Don't do that. My b/f is doing that to me and it sucks. There is no way we'll ever be able to have any kind of communication when this does end.
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only if you've said the words and she isn't hearing them, and if just being yourself makes her mad.
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Hey, careful what you do. You may piss her off so much that she may decide to have you whacked instead of leaving you
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That's what a weak man would do. Real men have a backbone. They will be straight up and honest with the girl, even if they are afraid to make her cry. You know what else? Right after that, he will LEAVE......and mean it.
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