Would you let your ''best friend'' go, if you found out she kissed your guy, even on the cheek, & knew you would have a problem with that? If she were to hide what she did, doesn't that mean she knows it's wrong? My guy is angry for what she did.
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I'm sorry but I don't think a kiss on the cheek is anything to get all uptight about (if you trust your man, that is).
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I'd say, dont worry about it. She didnt really do anything too bad. It's always been my philosophy that 100% responibility is placed on the significant other to make the right deicisions in every situation. If he didnt kiss back, and/or pushed her away, then nothings the worse, just another girl who cant control her emotions (cuz that's uncommon right?? ;)] I always said: "Go ahead guys, hit on my girlfriend all you want. If she cheats on me, or even tries, its just a good reason for me to get her out of my life and find someone who is worth my time/love/respect."
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First, why is best friend in quotes? A cheek kiss is just a sign of friendship. Also, when you refer to "your guy" you are alluding to property and not a relationship. Are you saying that a close friend of yours kissed your boyfriend on the cheek? If so, wouldn't you expect your boyfriend to be friends with your friends? You really sound a bit obsessive and immature in the relationship area. My wife and I have close mutual friends that we kiss on the cheeks (even on the lips) that we don't bother to mention, because we are all close and it is a method of showing close friendship.
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I'm wondering why your guy is angry about it?
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I know this person, and the friend she's speaking of, has had problems before, respecting what boundaries are, in a friendship. The friend, happened to develop the habit of grabbing her boyfriend's backside. That's not her being obsessive, it's her being tired of being disrespected. If she's warned that friend to not do things like that, and she still continues to, even after given the chance to adjust her behavior, to keep the friendship, she's got a right to be frustrated by it all. Also, she doesn't mean her boyfriend is property by any means.She means that is the guy she is currently in a relationship with. Sounds like there was a bit of assumption going on.. Why was the boyfriend mad? He knew it would bother his girlfriend for starters, and knew it was not something he liked her doing to him, or being disrespectful to him that way. Not everyone is comfortable with a kiss in friendship, but only from their special someone, or sometimes, no one at all. Everyone's different.
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I don't think a kiss on the cheek is all that huge a problem, if so in Europe we would be fighting with every body and every day. I believe someone is over reacting a bit. Sorry to be honest but it is my point of view. Regards.
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Knowing my set of friends, I might be upset because I know they have more or at least act like they have more respect than that.
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She knew you would have a problem with that... seems like she was trying to work you up a bit. Normally a kiss on a cheek is nothing, but if boundaries were set and she crossed it to make you jealous then by all means be mad at her. Talk to her first before ending the friendship and make sure that she perceived it as a friendly notion not one to get you riled up or because she secretly likes your boyfriend. I'm curious as to why your boyfriend was angry though, most would brush it off and defend your friend, saying how it was just a merely playful and friendly gesture. Something is definitely up and his anger for her actions should tell you something... has she been touchy with him before and he's gotten frustrated with her actions and representation of a best friend? Ask him why he's so angry..
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I don't think so. Best friends are for life, guys come and go. Don't let your friendship die because of some guy.
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Yes I would. Friends don't mess with friend's boyfriends, or make the friend uncomfortable when it comes to her guy. She's wrong, nice your guy saw the wrong and was angry about it.
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heck yes a friend should know your boundries even a non friend who is an associate ought to know you never ever ever ever ever ever mess with someone elses man? I have NEVER in my 20 yers gotten into a physical altercation because i feel like its childish... but if ONE of my friends put their ooey gooey lips on my byfriend of 5 years... teeth would fly... and mine arent going anywhere so that should tell ya something! I mean how skank can someone be to try and come between two people trying to make a relationship work... i think relationships are really challengeing... how dare someone try and take what youve worked so hard to keep up! -if shes trying to hide it... she knows shes guility.
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I want to say firstly that she mustn't be a great friend for doing that. none of my friends would even think about touching my bf. its against the friendship rules! i can understand your bf for being angry! and i think that she knew that you were to find out and knowing it was wrong thought that he should speak to you about it. then she dodged the question but she would have had to be dillusion to have thought to have gotten away with it. doubt this was any help! but its just my 2 cents!
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Yes I would let her go for ever and I wolud never forgive her I keep my man for ever
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I wouldn't completely end my relationship with my best friend. We can't base our decisions upon something bad that happens to us, because it will always be irrational. You have to not only look at her wrong doings, but also your boyfriends. What was the situation, where they could be left alone for something like this to happen, which I am sure you have already considered. I believe this situation deserves a lot of thought, because we only truly are allowed one good best friend in a life time. Choose wisely and i hope this helps =)
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