ANSWERS: 5
  • Seven years is a long time to be with someone and not married. You are probably the only person she has ever known this long, outside of her family. Sounds like she may have lost interest in you or maybe she just wants to see what else is out there. Give her space. let her see for herself. She may or may not come back to you. Prepare for either way.
  • Just because you don't argue, doesn't mean your relationship's perfect. Maybe she feels like she's lost herself. Maybe she's bored. Maybe she feels like a robot, doing the same thing day after day... They don't call it 'the seven year itch' for nothing. Have you *asked* her if there's anything truly wrong with your relationship, or what she's *feeling*? If not, you might want to before she goes. But *do* give her some time. If it's meant to be, it will be. Best wishes.
  • you cant do anything to change her mind its up to her and no relationship is perfect! its very hard to stay in a relationship that length of time and both parties need to work very very hard to make it work it seems like shes not all that into and does not want to fight to make it work. the fact you dont argue suggests to me you do not express and bad feelings or issues she may have issues she feels she cant tell you about so ask her. she may confide and then it can be worked through she may run even far away or she may have just fallen out of love sometimes this happens
  • thanks for you replies. All i can say is i can feel she doesn't love me anymore. She like's me, she likes to hang out with me, she plans things with me but i can't feel the love anymore.The hardest thing she's basically the only friend i've got. Being far away from home, no real friends, no family. Feeling so empty and alone is really fucked up. I guess i need to harden up lil bit
  • I'm in the same position as your "girlfriend." I broke up with my BF of 6 months becuz I needed some time away from him. He was heartbroken, and I was too, but I needed to do it. Now he's with another girl, and that just killed me. It's kinda weird for me to give you advice seeing as how I did the same thing as your gf, but all I can say is let her have her time. She may or may not come back. Start to move on, but keep the hope and possibility alive.

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