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Just hang in there, and give him some time. And space. Don't ignore him, but don't pester him either. Something's happened between you, and it sounds like he needs to think about it more. And pressuring him isn't going to make him think any faster. Take a deep breath, make his favorite dinner, and try to relax.
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Pressuring him isn't going to make things better, I agree. However, you need to realize when the line is crossed for you. If he isn't willing to try, but wants the sex still, that is his libido talking. You probably have a MUCH deeper emotional connection with kissing/hugging/sex than he has and it is only self destructive for you to pursue that. I'm not saying it's easy to give up on, because I know it's hard to let go of something and when you feel that connection again with someone - even through sex - some part of you feels alive again with your significant other. And for some reason, even if it's just that SLIGHT bit of gratification that you two are okay, even if just for a little bit, you'll take it. However, it is not healthy for you in the end and emotional turmoil and the battles in your head will eat you alive. Find someone who will go near you, without hesitation. Someone who will hug you, kiss you, and have sex with you, and do so with all of their being and heart. He says there is a chance - but that is only a chance. Relationships end. I am NOT one to say give up on love, but love should be easy.
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I would not have sex with anyone that I couldn't talk to, or who won't talk back. I am the type that needs things "fixed" BEFORE I go there. I would rather him walk away any time
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I would get rid of him.It sounds like he's using you for sex.
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