I have a black friend named Kanessa from El Cajon, California, who drives an old jalopy. All of our friends really dislike her. How do we tell her that we think she's not good enough?
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Beverlyofhills
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Be firm yet polite. Simply tell her that you'd rather not be friends with her because you're too different. If she asks how are you both different, then you may simply tell her that it's best if you no longer remain friends. While the truth is always the best policy, it's much better if you don't try to tell her that she's "not good enough" as that will only create an argument, resentment and worst of all, hurt feelings. Bottom line: Be firm and polite. Good luck!
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Your question contains one major flaw . You describe her as your 'friend' and yet you say you all dislike her and don't think she is good enough; hence, she is not your friend and you are certainly no friend to her, with this attitude. She is merely an acquaintance so you have no need to tell her anything. What her ethnic background is, what her name is, where she lives and what she drives is irrelevant and should not have been included in the question. Now, stop being an 'agent provocateur' and find something more constructive to do with all that time on your hands - how about volunteering for a charity?
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