ANSWERS: 7
  • Why would you break up over that?
  • Why would you break up? You're not married... you're not engaged... you're dating. If she needs her space, she deserves it. Neither of you have made an expressed commitment... so what's the big deal?
  • HUH?! I can only assume that you are broken up already, dude, and that your "GF" just doesn't have the courage to say what she really means!
  • Sounds...Interesting. Go with the flow man, if she starts showing the signs of wanting out of the relationship, than just get out. You can't hold onto anyone that doesn't want you.
  • Describes me exactly when I was feeling smothered and wanted out of the relationship. I just didn't want to hurt his feelings because it really wasn't his fault. It was about me. Another woman probably would have loved it, but I'd been alone too long. Enjoyed my freedom . . . not to date other guys, but just to do what I wanted, when I wanted for as long as I wanted.
  • Now go to my other queston I posted on here, and see what she did to me.
  • Possibly she wants to breakup... Possibly she just wants to live in her own place for a while (alone). My aunt actually divorced my uncle so she could go to school and get scholarship money... She wanted to do it all on her own. (She married him young.) Once she proved that to herself, they dated again. (She then had brain cancer and they found part of it inoperable. She moved back in with him and they were together until she died.) Point is, if you got together young, she may need to find out if she can do things on her own. There IS no guarantee, either in a live out or live in relationship. If she dates other people, you should have tacit permission to do the same. If the love is strong with BOTH of you, you will get back together. If not... Sorry. Good luck. ;-)

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