I want to marry my boyfriend so bad already but i can't because i am only 17. he has asked me but my mom doesn't know yet. is there anything that can help me be more patient?
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kitkat
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You too young and you better think of collage first if want to have a home and some money.Theres no difference being married or caring about someone alot ,your still committed.I dont mean to hurt your fellings,but when your about 30 you'll be an adult.
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You could spend your time asking your self, important questions, Like Where are you going to live? Who is paying for what? How are you planning on sharing your money? Who is doing the laundry, dishes, grocery shopping, cleaning the toilet, etc? Do you want children? How will we make decisions together? Are we both willing to face into difficult areas or do we try to avoid conflict? Do you think we have problems in our relationship that we need to deal with before our wedding? Do we handle conflict well? How are we different? Do you think our differences will create problems in our marriage? Do you expect or want me to change? Can we both forgive? Are we both willing to work on our communication skills and to share intimately with each other?
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Well 17 is a very, very young age to get married. Also, most marriages don't even last very long anyway. Especially when you marry young. You shouldn't be thinking of marrying your boyfriend but thinking of college. When/if you do marry your boyfriend, where are you going to live? If you buy your own house you will have to get a job and he will also to pay for the house/clothes/food/applicances/furniture, etc. I personally think you should really think through this before you marry him. You should really tell your mother, too. Good luck!
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Being just one year off stings but your parents are going to. Don't worry yourself too much without their permission gives you that year to find out more about him and just what kind of husband he'll be. Take it slow before leaping into something there's alot to learn about. You'll be glad you did. If it does work out I wish you both the best.
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That in many states having sex with someone under the age of consent is statutory rape and can be prosecuted under law.
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Stay in School , take extra classes , go to College
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I met my husband when I was 14 and he was almost 19. We gave each other friendship rings when I was 16 and got engaged when I was 17 and married at 18. We knew each other 4 years:-) I insisted we go slow. I was a virgin when we married. Instead, we learned about each other, doing building projects together, working together, discussing our future, reading to each other. We set goals and found out about all our likes and dislikes. We rarely were alone as a couple unless we were off riding horses or motorbikes. We did th8ings int eh daytime. He drove me to school and then went to work. We have been married almost 35 years and we still talk all the time about things and just enjoy each other's company. I don't think we will ever run out of conversation:-)
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I know how you feel, im 16 and hes 15. i want to marry him one day, but right now im looking for an alternitive, if anyone has any help.
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