Maybe with the baby, work, or finical stuff he might be a little stressed which can drop the sex drive down. You can also try maybe wearing something sexy for him. You don't have to buy anything, just maybe a thong and tshirt on, or something that you know might urn him on.

YOu can make a romantic dinner, wear some new sexy lingere with stockings, or give him a massage. I read in an article from Woman's world that seafood makes men's libido go up & I think pepper helps too. Also, chocolate helps. One glass of wine (but not too much also helps). You could also try sharing stories to set the mood. Hope that helps.

i would go with surprise foreplay. if you're on the couch together, just start kissing him and maybe put your hand in his pants. ;]

ok im a guy and the best thing every man likes is when you wear maybe his works clothes with nothing underneath them maybe just his button up shirt open of course and also you have to think did he see with his own eyes the baby being born i dont have kids but i have friends with kids and sometimes after they see the baby coming out it kinda messes with their head a little it sounds stupid but true they just cant believe that that baby came out of there and now they kinda look at you weird and if you fought alot during the pregnancy that could have something to do with it ask yourself is he the kind of man who holds grudges for a while foods to up the libido include basil carrots pistachios sage turnips chocolate bananas eggs honey ginseng garlic oat onion oysters peach pepper spanish fly walnut oil u can use to cook with artichokes asparagus basil clove ginger nuts strawberries tomatoes truffles (a rare expensive mushroom) and last but not least mango foods to avoid are dill (like dill pickles and vinegar) lentil lettuce there are plenty more foods to boost and many more to stay away from these work or you can go to a health store and get whats called horny goat weed but this he has to see to take it it is pill form so if you want to sneak it up on him start feeding him these foods and youll have lots of sex lots and lots and lots just get some lube because it will be off the wall with these foods and after a while you will dry up im not being a jerk im just saying its gonna last a while like a snickers commercial "gonna be here a while" rate my answer and google aphrodisiac foods and you will get more foods than what i listed good luck sweet heart trust me it will work and sorry for the long answer but when it comes to sex i see where youre coming from bye bye darlin

I think guys are turned on visually more than women and maybe you are carrying a few extra pounds. Watching you go thru birth can also be traumatising for them. My husband was a bit reluctant at first but fortunately he is a breast man and my growth and production so turned him on. He was happy to experience the delights of my new breasts and wait for time to cure the trauma to the other end.

Im no expert but i would imagine he is having trouble balancing seeing you as a sexual person and seeing you as a mother. Im sure he does still fancy you, or can appreciate why your sexy, but he might be divorcing whatb he sees with what he feels. I have no idea if you are breastfeeding - and in an ideal world it shouldnt matter, but something he has always seen as a source of sexual desire now has another function and it might be throwing him a bit. Men work on a sexual stimulus basis (which is why we check out other people probably more than women,) if that stimulus is being used for another function, it might well be hard (pardon the pun) for him to generate desire as it might just feel a bit wrong to him. Good luck, im sure it will be fine.