ANSWERS: 10
  • Is that the only thing he said when he acted like he was your bf? What did you say to that? He could just be joking and then, thought, opps, this girl thinks I'm serious so, I better say "I'm sorry but we can still be friends..." That's what it sounds like, lol. He thinks you took him too seriously!
  • he holds my hand in public, hugs me (in a gf/bf way) in public. i mean he does all those bf things to me... and today (he said he only wants to be close friends yesterday) was just like yesterday, the way he acted i mean. but in front of my friends, he teases the hell out of me. im scared that he's just a player, but i dont know what to think. what is the difference between a player and a good guy? :(
  • he is probably just using you, if he wanted to be with you he wouldnt have said that.. so really you gotta move on. Some men are pigs
  • I don't think I'm a boy basher as a rule - but I do think this guy is playing with your feelings for his own amusement and ego. Not a b/f. Not much of a friend even from what you write.
  • ass...
  • He sounds like quite the smooth talker. Smooth talking guys like that are usually in for one thing only. He is being very manipulative. Since he says you're only friends, then distance yourself from him and don't spend as much time with him.
  • He is not interested, but he love to have sex with you.
  • If I were you, I would ask him to clarify. Either he is or isn't your bf. There should be no in between.
  • To paraphrase several other notions here, he means that he's not interested in committing to you if he can gain all the benefits of a commitment without actually doing it.
  • He means he wants to be close friends. And is not ready for a relationship. Give him time or start showing interest in someone else. He will see you in a different light then + 5

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