People who know me say I'm alot of fun to be around and love talking with me, but when it comes to relationships, my greatest fear is being boring and so I literally freeze up and am not my self. How to overcome or avoid this?There's a guy I want to date!
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On second thought, you don't need to change who you are, but you might consider trying to show your friends the more serious side of you. You have a great thing going, for you know who you are, and once you show that you are not one dimensional, your chances of finding that guy will increase. Also, by disproving that you are one dimensional, your relationships with your friends will likely grow deeper, for they will get to know the other sides of you, and love grows with how much is known about a person you love.
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yes I did watch that movie...you might be amazed, but this girl is one of the unpopular ones. She's got a boyfriend now, but was complaining about how she doesn't look like this and that the last time. When I look at it overall, she's trying to get out of a rut and she sees that I'm not in there and nice enough to give a hand. I'm honest with others and willing to give because I have alot to give and happy to give. I just wish there were more balanced people around me. I usually get along with people older than me. She is older, but has many issues in her life making her feel low. She even tried to convince me that I had acne eventhough I clearly did not and many specialists said I did not. I realized that she was doing that so that I weed out and PAY for all these potions and lotions so that she wouldn't have to. I stood up and told her that look, I do not have a problem with my skin and I know other people have worse. She left it at that.
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Dont worry about that part of if. Whatever thought you put in your mind about something, is exactly how you wil be. If you can get it in your mind that we are all human, and all make mistakes, then that may help to relieve your mind. I think maybe you are putting too much thought into yourself, instead of focusing on the other person. When you start to focus on them, then it takes the pressure off of you. At least its a great start!
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TO build confidence first of all realize that he is also a human being just like u. secondly practice in front of a mirror that will help a lot. I had a lot of issues while talking to girls, but now i dont have any, i gained that by removing my fear by practicing in front of a mirror. And u know what I am a singer and now i can perform in front of a crowd of 1000 odd easily no problemo.
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