putting myself in your shoes, if they were sent WHILE I was in a relationship with the person, I would break up with them, to me thats considered cheating, unless it was at the very begining of the relationship....but then again...what were you doing looking through her stuff???

Get over it. 1) you were wrong going through her computer 2) you KNEW she dated this guy. What happened in that relationship is, frankly, NOYB.

Move on. She's with you, not the other guy and anything she did before she dated you is, quite honestly, her own business. If you were looking through her things without permission, you may have another issue to contend with.

Nothing, this was a part of her life before you met and if you wish to maintain your relationship you just have to accept the fact. Jealousy will kill any chance of happiness you have.You should not be going through her personal letters on the computer. That is obsessive and a very fast way to lose her trust and her companionship.

You should forget about it....or leave her and find a girl who's never dated anyone ever, if it's really bothering you.

quite looking thru her stuff

You have to understand, that she had a life before you showed up, she loved other people, and she did things with them, while in a relationship. Didn't you? When you go searching for things, you are not always going to like what you find. I am sure he probably does have them, but there is nothing that can be done about that. Be proud that you have her, now.

I'm going through a bit of what you're gong through right now as well, we have just bought a house together and as our stuff starts to mingle and we unpack our new life together I am finding photo albums he has put on shelves with provocative pics of his ex's which I'm sure he didn't realize were there or got put out mistakenly, so we have been discussing how they should be handled... you have to have a respect for each other and a comon ground. If something is making you feel uncomfortable you need to (in a non judgemental/confruntaional way) explain your feelings towards certain things. I have no problems/nor do I have the right to have problems with him having a past and life before me. But I feel that there are places to keep your special memories and this does not include on display under the coffee table we purchased together. If these pictures were private and on her personal computer and from before the 2 of you were together you have no right to be jealous nor should you as the 2 of you are now together.... "They broke up for a reason" is how I like to look at it, and if she wants a memory of the good times they shared together then so be it... We all have a past

Well dear what you should do it's to have a serious talk with her about it, ask her kindly to remove those pictures, if she does not then it will be best that you find another girl who respect your feelings as a man and as a human being. good luck

Get a new girlfriend if you can't handle it.

You don't do anything. Unless you wanna email 'em to yourself so that you have 'em too. But why? You're the one dating her now. You've got the real goods. Don't worry about it. It's in the past. You're sort of a creepy jerk for going through her things, though. It's not your computer, is it?

The first thing you should do is look inward and recall things you've done in the past with your exes. How do those things affect your life today, and what bearing does it have on your current relationship? Would you want your girlfriend to be understanding with you if she discovered the same of you? Generally, people dislike things in others that they see in themselves. Evidentally, you felt compelled to look for her activities on the computer, and presumably checked her outgoing messages. Look within yourself and really ask yourself why you're compelled to feel jealous; and, hopefully, realize that it's just some part of you wanting to sabatoge your relationship. If you want this woman, deal with your feelings. It would not hurt to be open about all of this. I was open about a similar situation, and in the end, it did wonders for our relationship. Bottom line is your girlfriend doesn't owe you anything in regards to her past, and vice versa. Your life is now, this moment, this relationship. Do you like/love her? Then just be with her and let her have her past as you have yours!

Forget it and move on.. Did you think the guy never saw her naked yo?...

Dude I can imagine that you're pissed but get over it. What she did in her past relationships is none of your business. If she were sending those pics to guys now I would say you got something to be concerned about but since this happened in the past put it behind you and look toward the future. If it really bugs you that much then maybe you aren't ready for a serious relationship and should consider letting her go til you can grow up and accept that what happened in your partners past is none of your dammned business.

Nothing. Stay out of her business.

Nothing get over it. She's yours and all he his is those pictures. It's about the person not some pictures or your emotions about something you have no control of. Get over it and move on.

1-Why were you going through her computer? Spying on her isn't your right, just like you'd be angry if she was spying through your private files. 2-It's in the past, forget about it.

You have her and all he has are pictures of her. If you keep snooping and being jealous though, you won't have her anymore. Then maybe it will switch. Maybe you'll be the one with the pictures and he will be the one with her again. How's that for an eye-opener?

The pictures where of me!

Forget about him. Enjoy the pictures and just remember that you two are together now and that guy is gone. What good will it do to think about him? Do you really think she spent her time waiting just for you to come along? I really doubt it.

get over it!!..this happened way before you were in the picture ...what they did when they were together is NONE of your business! and here's a tip ..dump the jealousy it will get you no where fast and you will lose the g/f...then you be just like the other bloke ..an EX!!!

Dude my husband would not be my husband if he cared about naked pictures of me that some of my exs have. Things that you do with your exs is none of your current GFs business. As is what she did with her exs none of yours. If the two of you sit down and TALK about this like adults you may even find out he bruned them, gave them back, lost them, or that she doesn't give a s*** what he did with them. You have her now, and even if the other guy is whacking it to old pictures of his EX girlfriend - well, isn't that just kind of pathetic??

If your girlfriend was a centerfold in Playboy, the whole world would have NUDE pictures of her. Are you just mad that she hasn't sent you any yet? If your girlfriend is Vanessa Hudgins, she ain't all that much.

Is it really her problem if you feel uncomfortable for something she has no control over anymore? Maybe she realizes that he might still have the pictures and that scares her, so she's afraid of giving naked pictures again to anyone else. There's no need to feel jealous over this. The jealousy you're experiencing might even sabotage your entire relationship.

Confront her. If she gets upset dump her.

Say, "bitch you aint nothing but a whore" that'll teach her.

Let me get this straight...You are jealous about a picture that your current girl friend sent her ex boy friend when they were dating way back when and now you need to do something about it...Let me also tell you what they did when they were dating before you showed up on the scene, they had sex...Now soak that in and get over yourself...Jealousy is an ugly thing, especially on a guy...Live your life now and enjoy what you have with her because it's all about the present... But I regress, If you feel the need too want to get back at her, send a naked picture of yourself to her ex boyfriend also, so he can have one of the each of you, that will show her...

Stop spying on her.

There's nothing you can do, brah. If it makes you too jealous than break up with her. Otherwise, suck it up.

if you don't have any reason to suspect she's still seeing him, I'd let it go. Insecure and/or desperate men are quite unattractive.

so what, he has a picture to remind him of what he doesn't have anymore. get over it or you may be an Ex too...afterall, she's with you NOW! (what everyone here has said about her past being none of your business, is exactly right. is she your first and only? most likely, NOT! so chill!)

You put the pics on a cd. Then you dump her, then you make one of those sites that are in fashion now which guys use to avenge their girlfriends for cheating on them. Then put the pics on that site. :)

Get over it! If she wanted to be with somebody else, she would. You make it sound as if you were searching through her computer, what did you think you would find? Besides, they were still dating. No big deal.

Get the hell off her back you insecure psycho. Stop trying to control her every move and back off.

grow up, get over it, who cares. she should be the one who feels like an idiot. i actually doubt he still has them. and if he does ohh well. ya should have know going into it your gf is loose.

Nothing. He is the ex and you are not...but why are you snooping into her 'puter, anyway?