There is someone for everyone. You will know when you meet them for the first time... Quit trying so hard.. Love will find you.

There is someone for everyone. just keep looking. do not give up. when you least expect it, mr/miss right will come along. You might increase your odds of finding someone, by investigating a decent, legitimate, dating service, that is christian oriented. Don't give up!

Love is like chocolate--everyone needs it! Seriously, if you'll focus on God and helping others, then you'll find that God can fulfill your needs and praying to Him to find ms. or mr. right will come in due season. Good luck and while you're waiting, go be a blessing to someone!

I think sometimes its good for people to learn how to be on their own and acccept themselves before they enter a relationship. I know it sounds fruity, but sometimes I think fate realises that you need to be alone at a certain time in your life so that you have the time to get to know and love yourself. Once you've reached that level of acceptance, you will have much more fulfilling relationships with the people you eventually become involved with. Its good to learn to live with yourself, before you learn live with someone else. Someone will come along when the time is right. Its better that way as you end up with someone you really love, rather than with someone just to avoid being alone.

To all those with answers of starry eyed optimism, you are full of it. I am involved heavily in charity works, doing as much good on the planet as I can. That means crap when it comes to a love life. Karma does not apply. After only two attempts a relationship (I'm in my late 20's... yeah.), I have been dumped with full enthusiasm by the other person. I have attempted many relationships, but I was only able to manage to have any potential with those two, and they are long gone after a brief period of time. They both said it was them, and not me. Sure. I have come to accept that I am not meant to be in a fulfilling relationship. Some people are meant to live and die alone. I am one of those people. I have accepted that. The sooner others accept their own intended isolation, they will not feel upset or confused as to why it is not happening for them. For a small percentage, it never will. I've always been a person who is in a small unique percentage for most everything, so this is no exception. Enjoy life, and do not yern for things that are not intended for you. Not everyone can be a respected athlete, a musician, a dancer, etc. Same thing with love, not everyone is capable of being loved.

ive known many good people who died without having found love, so I have to say no.

Dating services are a waste of money, even so called legitimate 'christian' sites. I have spent over $100 on them. It is a money making scheme. Database programmers simply know there is money to be made with people like me. When a person is searching in a fruitless effort, they will throw money at it thinking it will help things along.

That a great question. Its so hard dating. Who likes the bar scene? No one I know. I think we could all find someone if we were able to be honest with ourselves about what we "want" versus what we don't want. It seems that we make the list of all the things we look for in someone else-BUT could we measure up to that list? Hard to say..I think people don't give themselves enough credit. Those that are not open to notice the signs when other people do find us interesting or attractive. We are so afraid of rejection and yet we reject the thought of going out and feeling good about how we look or how we think people will feel about us.

No, I think everyone could find someone who they are compatible with assuming they are not locking themselves into a room everyday and avoiding the world and people like the plague. I think there is someone for everyone. Most likely a few people you would be perfectly compatible with.

no...I believe you might be trying to hard to find someone. When you try to hard it just comes off like its forced. Focring a relationship is never a good thing. it should always be natural.

Yes. There are lots of people in this world who are alone till the end of their lives.The 'better half' is not made during their current life span!

there is something for everyone in Life.... But be sure to judge the right one......

there is always at least 1 person in this world that wants you. if you don't want the person who does your not open minded. You got to give people a chance no matter who they are. but all and all there is always someone

I think so, but I'm ONLY speaking for myself. I've been single for many, many years now (about 15 years to be exact). Life is so much simpler this way, for me. I've had family, friends and even strangers telling me to find someone "special" .

NO, I JUST THINK SOME PEOPLE ARE JUST NOT MEANT TO BE TOGETHER..:)

Well, look at the priests and nuns that committed their lives to having no relationship at all, other than the relationship they have with God. I think there is someone for everyone, but I also believe some souls are so deep, that it is hard for them to find the right one.

no.human are meant by birth.and selfish too.

I believe that some people never find love because they look for someone that doesn't exist. They look for a physical incarnation of what they believe is perfect, rather than love itself. Finding love is not hard, as long as we are prepared to accept that to find love, we must first give love...

its very rare

Nobody is meant to do anything or to fail to do anything. You might be unfortunate, but there is nobody and nothing out there arranging matters to prevent you from finding happiness. It may be that you do not correspond to the fashionable stereotype, but that does not matter, lots of people don't admire the fashionable stereotype either, and there will be someone somewhere who will admire somebody like you. The task is to find that person. If there is nobody for you in your immediate circle you will need to look further afield, perhaps by using personal ads, or Internet dating sites, risky of course, but the alternative might be to resign yourself to being alone. Perhaps the hardest thing to come to terms with is rejection after making an approach. I can tell you from my own experience that you can become case-hardened to rejection, and after a few rejections you can simply carry on with the search. Best wishes with your quest.