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you need to find him and tell him that just because you two slip doesnt means he gets to leave his daughter too.
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I was in a similar type of situation. But my son is a minor. We don't live close and I called my ex up and told him I needed to send our son to live with him for a while. I didn't give him a chance to refuse. They needed to re-establish thier relationship. So when the school year ended I sent him to his fathers for 6 months. He ended up staying for a year. (We live no where close to each other.) I think you need to have a talk with your ex and make him understand. Or at least find a way to get him in the same room with your daughter for a bit of time. It will be up to him after that to be the father he should be to her.
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First, have a long talk with daughter. She has only one father, good or bad, and she needs to learn to deal with it. He has not abandoned her nor does he love her any the less. He is having his own problems now. She (daughter) shouldn't take on dad's problems. Also, seriously consider counseling. Next, at least writ dad, or have a talk with him. Point out that he has a daughter and will always have a daughter regardless of what he does with his life. If he wants to participate in daughter's life he needs to make an effort. Offer to support and help and for god's sake, don't bad-mouth dad to daughter. She has already learned what kind of person he is.
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