How can you love someone so much that you allow to be hurt so bad and want to come back?
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This is actually my current situation. This is love on one side, the other person in this does not love you. You need to let go, and move on like I'm currently attempting to do. I'm not saying break all connection, because you obviously have strong feelings for this person, but break "the" connection. Don't run away either, that will just cause more problems, and possibly bigger problems. Find a hobby or something to take your mind of the hurt, and attempt to let go of a one sided relationship.
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The human mind typically remembers the bad things that happen to us, however i believe love is such a strong emotion that it blinds us from the bad things, or you may just be comfy in a relationship. Depending on what this person did, if you can forgive them it wouldnt be a bad thing to come back, so long as its justified.
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I couldn't and wouldn't love someone who continually hurt and mistreated me and I certainly wouldn't want them to return to my life if they had left it. ~ What you describe does not sound like love to me. It sounds like co-dependency issues that need to be resolved.
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Sometimes we like to get stuck in the rain. Theres nothing wrong with that as long as nobody ends up in the hospital...
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i was in that situation.. i kept going back because i loved him so much and thought he loved me and i made up excuses for why he hurt me.. but finally something clicked and i was like i dont need this. he actually dumped me but i didnt go back:)
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Because when you love someone.. you get blinded
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yes i have and i went back to them and they just hurt me again, i felt so stupid, but i learnd from it. people don't change over night.
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hurts so good-huh?
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