Yes, I am a woman, use a little of her own medicine, do something different to get different results. See if that creates a different response, if it does then she still is intereasted, if it doesnt, move on...

Maybe not, but it sounds like she thinks she's seen enough of you.

Well, yes and no. You see, what you're asking is about compatibility, basically. General advice: Do not persist in going to the same places, doing the same things. Hangin' out at home with popcorn is good for tried and true relationships, not with someone new, even if it's 10 months already. Pay close attention to her prefered lifestyle. Is she an outdoorsman (woman)? Couch vegetable or shopping enthusiast? Clubber or cyclist? Your role is simple. To add romance and diversity. Home popcorn is neither. For useful hints listen to Meat Loaf (Marvin Lee Aday). For Goodnes's Sake, be romantic. Cool and chillin only works in music clips. Women want to be wooed, no matter what they say. You don't need to donate a kidney. Lots of little things earn more points that some big heroic sacrifice. Remember the BIG RULE: Love is a flame, it needs feeding to burn bright. How do you expect passion if you don't put enough timber on this fire? Ignore it, it will only die out, no matter how much of a hip guy you are. That's what my little intuition suspects. You went easy on the romancin'. So, now she's yours, so you did the wild monkey dance, war's over and won ! Wrong !!! You know when the war is won? When you bring up the slightest hint of matrimony and you see her light up like a christmas tree, that's when the war is won. Untill then, my friend, the battles are yours to fight. . Of course, there's always the bastard's way. Knock her up. That'll dramatically increase the chances of her wanting to remain with you. That'll also make her bitter in the long run. Chances are she'll become one of those jaded ladies with a cigarette on a corner of the mouth, bickering about her worthless husband, you. So, even if it seems harder at first glance, the persistent romancing is actually the winning solution here. It'll make her warmer (much warmer) and it will give you a nice long term relationship and peace of mind in the long run. Oh, and, even you'll break up one day, women talk. Unavoidably, her girl friends will find out about you and your ways and, who do you think they'll want to get with, now that he's free? Yeah, you. Nice little fringe benefit, aint'it? Could you be seeing her too much? We, in Romania, have a saying that roughly translates "rarer is better". Like all good long term things, there's supposed to be a gradual escalation here. You might actually be suffering from a "togetherness overdose". People tend to get bored quite easily. NO, i do not recommend just trying to see less of her all of a sudden, because that'll raise a LOT of questions in her mind and heart. The carefull approach here is finding new and different things to do. If a home-setting is what appeals to you, try some visits at her relatives, especially at those she will need a bit of a moral support to go to. You'll give the signal of being commited to her, earn some hero points for making funny faces behind annoying aunt Muriel's back, help her get some mandatory visits done at last, and with you backing her up (you have no idea how fun is to turn that awful "never forget" mind of a woman against her by scoring some "the guy that stood for you" points") and THE most important factor, you'll now have been included in her "family pool". So, let's recap. In a few masterful moves, you have become, from "the guy I'm seeing", the... "my guy". And, here's the trick, my friend. Women HATE to lose stuff !! Once she considers you "her's", no matter what happens, you'll (unless you really mess it up) ALWAYS remain hers. You tell me now, isn't her Heart the place best suited to anchor your relationship ? Nutshell: Diversity; Romance; Familiarity; Property (yes, don't be coy, that's how you really get her). Oh and, just to be sure I mentioned it: NEVER, and I mean NEVER refuse sex or intimacy when she wants it. It's a deathkiss AND she'll make you pay dearly for it. Best policy, at least two orgasms. Best effect, it'll make it really hard on her to refuse it when YOU want it.