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  • Oaky, I am going to try to summarise your 3 questions. Your husband, before you two started dating, slept with an ex girlfriend who was dating someone new. It appears that she had a baby sometime later and you are wondering if it is your husband's child, both from the timing and from the apparent similarity in appearance to your husband. What should you do? Yourself, nothing. Your husband, with your agreement, should try to contact the ex, open confidential communications lines and inquire about the paternity of the child. If she doesn't want to co-operate, then drop it. If she does want to continue, first ask for a DNA test. Then discuss what your options are: access, financial responsibility, etc.

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