Ladies, why does it make you feel insecure to know that your man is watching porn (DVDs, magazines or online)?
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Miss Unafraid
ANSWERS: 8
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It's a matter of performance and entertainment. He will then expect you to perform as the actors on the flick and be entertained. I don't think of sexual encounters with my man as entertainment. It's a slippery slope... no pun intended!
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It doesn't make me insecure because I know it is all fantasy and it is just his biological need to let off...steam. I think some women are insecure because they feel their husband is looking elsewhere for something he should be getting from her and it creates a fear of inadequacy. What DOES bother me is if he were to look at someone "real", not a "pro"...then she becomes a real person and the fantasy element is erased.
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because they are lusting over another girl!it is a slight form of cheating because the guy is gonna have that image of the porn stars stuck in his head while being intimate in the bedroom with his lady while the woman will be enjoying the moment with the one she loves.It does not make the girlfriend feel secure knowing her boyfriend is jacking off to another woman.but guys dont think about that because the only brain they have is in their penis!How would you feel as a guy if your lady had pics of naked men hung up all around her room and constantly fantasied about being with them?as much as you dont want to admit it you would be bothered because its human nature!
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Adultry with the mind. Stop it with the insecure nonsense. It does not give a person the right at all. I am beautiful and hot. It is disrepectful to your partner. Lust is not love. I could never love a man that was into porn.
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Well, im a guy. And i can say that somtimes i've met girls who are into porn as much as myself. I agree with what you girls are saying with its disrespectfull and im proud to say i've only looked at it while single, because its rude while im already interested and interacting in a relationship whether it be a girl/boy im with. But i feel this way because i know it would make me feel odd knowing that while im here...they are there looking at somethings thats not me. But thats just me.
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I watch it with my bf sometimes, it's funny. But I know he's not like fantasizing about them, I guess it's just a guy thing... O_O It only will make me feel insecure if it's the only thing he wants to do 24/7 and around me. Then it's gonna be a problem
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It doesn't. I used to be dead against it and would NOT date a guy I knew would watch it, because, well, I was taught that even lusting after a woman you are not married to is considered adultery in the eyes of God.
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I don't really think that watching porn is a form of cheating. Unless the person would rather watch porn than be with you, then I guess it turns into a problem. I actually enjoy porn and I think watching porn with your partner can be quite a turn on, but that's just me :)
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