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  • They have to deal with each other for the children's sake, and their marriage ended for a reason, so unless you know she is trying to get him back, or he wants her back. I wouldn't worry. It is good that they can be civil for the sake of the girls. If you want to be with him, you have to realize she is the mother of his children and will always be there, maybe you can try to get to know her as well, that may make you feel more comfortable.
  • You'll have to deal with your own insecurities first. Keep in mind - he chooses to be with YOU in the here and now. Be grateful he is a decent fellow who gets along with his Ex for the sake of their kids. She must not be too wretched of a person either. It could be so much worse! Be respectful of their relationship. You don't have to be excited about it or love it, but don't let something like that cause friction in your relationship. You will get more and more accustomed to dealing with it with time. It just takes time and a healthy perspective!
  • They SO don't need to be talking everyday! Unless they need to get ahold of eachother real quick over some info about their children when one has them and the other doesn't, there really is no need to communicate. Daily conversations means the relationship is more than just conversations about the kids. I don't think they are trying to get back together. They are just over-the-top on the whole ex thing. What they are really doing wrong is stepping on your toes. I say that because it is invading your relationship. You have a right to feel as if you come first. He seems to be putting you below, or just equal to his ex as far as who is involved in his day to day life. Not only are their daily conversations uneccesary, they are very inappropriate and it is damaging you. Put your foot down! Good Luck
  • You knew they had children together and they will always have a bond because of those children. They will have to communicate for the best interests of the children this is what they call co=parenting. If you can't accept this move on!
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