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I'm almost positive that they're just trying to make themselves feel better. especailly, when they do it in front of someone, they're really just jealous!
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I believe it a cover for inadequacies in other areas.
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Both. Also, people who do that could be expressive people whose self-worth is based on recognition of their accomplishments.
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If it's a constant form of expression, I'd say it's definitely a self esteem issue. People who are sure of themselves don't have to brag about their accomplishments to others. They speak for themselves;)
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I think there could be several reasons. Some are doing just as you say to build up their self confidence. I think some people are very caught up with themselves.
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Attention-seeking device, lack of self confidence and a sprinkling of fear of failure
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Yes, I have no doubt self confidence and arrogance are two different things.
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It depends on the person. Sometimes - especially in work situations - bringing up achievements increases the chances of a benefit (a promotion or raise, in the case of work). Some people like to brag and think of it as a contest, a sort of "biggest fish" story competition. And yeah, some people need validation and will seek it from anyone who happens to be in hearing range.
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possibly a bit of both.
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I think it can be done both ways...some people have 0 self-confidence and do it for that...but then others *do* do it because they like the attention.
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Both and it is very annoying and common place here.
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Perhaps they struggled to achieve their success and would like others to share in their joy :)
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If these people are doing so only occasionally, I would give them the benefit of the doubt and think they are merely trying to boost their lack of self confidence. However if they are constantly pointing out their achievements to others, I would think that they are trying to show off.
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