My girl won't have an orgasm in front of me....she says she is shy...but she will dance naked in front of me...take baths and shower in front of me....allow me to have an orgasm in front of her...is she really shy?
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In front of you, or with you? If she can dance naked, she should be able to climax with you. Being on display while enjoying the big 'O', however, is very intimidating.
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Yes - she is shy. Lots of women are intimidated by this. It is one of our very most vulnerable times. She may be worried she will look funny or sound funny or may be worried she won't be able to have an orgasm with you. Try to reassure her she is safe with you. Try a romantic evening of sex instead of tawdry and bawdy. Hold her, cuddle her, tell her how great you think she is, massage her. She needs to be reassured, quietly and discreetly and romantically, that you want her to enjoy herself, you think she is beautiful and she is safe with you. It may take some time - don't be impatient with her - it will only have the opposite of your desired effect.
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The act of having an orgasm is very intimate, and can be hard to do in front of someone else. Maybe she's afraid she'll feel pressured and won't be able to climax, whatever the reason, you need to be patient and not force her to do anything she's not comfortable with! Hopefully as your relationship and sexuality with each other grows, she'll loosen up and be able to!! :)
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An orgasm is something that only occurs when a person is comfortable around their partner. With women this is especially so. Also, an orgasm is something that you cannot control once it starts. It is an involuntary thing. So, she might not feel comfortable enough in front of you to allow herself that pleasure.
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u shld make her feel comfy wen ur around her mayb if u n her sleep together mayb make her feel better about her self b more sensitive grls like dat once she gets comfy around u she will orgasm around you good luck! =]
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I'd have to see her dance naked in front of me to make that determination. I'm free tomorrow night, if that works for you guys.
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It could be anything. She may be a squirter and be very uncomfortable with it expecting that you may not like it. Talk to her and ask her why.
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Alot of women dont orgasm at all. maybe she cant and is too embarrased to say so? is it a possibility that she is trying to cover it up.? just my .02 O and just so your aware, there is an A/B for adults for questions with this kind of content. just scroll to the bottom of the page and there is a link..
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