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  • I think you should look into playing a sport together... something that is not too competitive, so you can both work at your communication skills and loose a little bit of weight while your at it... spontaneity can really boost any relationship... whether it be surprise picnic, or roses on the bed etc... also take her to the beach once a week, and walk up and down... time will pass by quickly and you wont even know youv burnt calories.. also another good one for me is, play fighting!!! can burn alot of calories, and is sooo fun!! ( make sure she feels like she is winning at certain points!)
  • it's personality and compatibility (not shape) that determine whether the spark is alive and kicking. Reality check is needed I think (and I doubt if this has anything to do with your looks).
  • Girls love spontaneity. The thing is, you are worried about the relationship and that is sure to kill spontaneity. If you think too much about sparking things up, things just won't spark. It's something you both have to work towards, not just you. Both people have to find new and exciting ways to enjoy being together for a relationship to last. If it's only one person of the two trying desperately to spark something it's sure doom for a relationship.
  • How much weight? Are you chubby? Still, my boyfriend is quite chubby and my gosh he's gorgeous so don't worry about that. Other than that...at least she is in love with you...perhaps you could take up a hobby together.
  • You do not need to put the spark back in the relationship. Don't force it. Just be natural. If you are going to base your relationship on the spark, then your relationship is destined to fail. Don't think about it too much. Just be you and it's okay to be spontaneous. Many relationships have sparks that die out, but love is about enjoying each other's company, not trying to force yourself to have the spark. Just my thoughts..
  • Being spontaneous is the answer. Women do love it. Also if she is bored with you in other ways, try spicing it up a bit. Like sex, try different things like drawn out foreplay. Also find out what she likes to do. Take her shopping, or on a vacation. Maybe its commitment she is looking for. Hope this helps.
  • Maybe your self esteem is suffering slightly and you are projecting that. Two options 1. accept that you are putting on a little weight but still the same person and if a few pounds makes that much difference then it wasnt that good anyway or 2. Get your mojo back and get into shape, feel better about yourself and hopefully you can rise above any negative feelings. One of these is the right answer for you, if not then both of them are. Ill leave that bit of psychology up to you. T

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