How can I get a man to fall for me? He's a friend of mine, a Christian, a fun guy who values friendship, and impossible to read (a.k.a.: no one knows if he likes any girl). I fell for him two years ago, but he doesn't know it. Help?
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Tell him about it Tell him everything you feel Give him every reason to accept That you're for real Tell him about it Tell him all your crazy dreams Let him know you need him Let him know how much he means
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Probably what you should do is tell him how you feel. Bases on his background it may be that he feels the same way about you but sees you in the same way and is very concerned that he will insult you and anger you if he lets you know. Sometimes when someone cares for someone else it seems more acceptable to be sure to have them as a friend instead of having frightening them away and losing them but considering what can be gained I think the risk is worth it. If they are a good friend, even if they don't feel the same way, they will still be your friend.
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My first boyfriend is like this. I just asked him what he'd say if I asked him if he wanted to be my boyfriend. He said yes. He respects his relationships, though, which is probably why no one could tell that he was interested in girls. Maybe the guy you like is the same way. It doesn't hurt to ask. If he doesn't like you, he'll probably be respectful about it since he sounds like that kind of guy anyway. TELL HIM!
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WHY HAVENT YOU TOLD HIM? WHAT COULD HE SAY BUT YES OR NO
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