My step daughter & my niece (who I am very close to) are both 5 weeks pregnant. My step daughter lives in NC & wants me there but my niece wants me there 4 her in FL. If they are both giving birth within a few days of each other, who should I be with?
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snakelover
ANSWERS: 12
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Wow, what a problem to have! I guess if you can afford lots of last-minute plane tickets, you can do both. Otherwise, I'd lock the ladies into a Steel Cage Match(tm) and let them fight it out :)
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I would base my decision on two things. First who NEEDS my help the most, and which one am I going to see the LEAST. If one of them has 10 people standing by to help, and the other has 2, then I'd go see the person that has the fewest family members there to support her. Secondly, if one is closer to you and you will see her the most, I'd go to the person that I wouldn't see as often, just to make it more special.
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Boy...that's a tough one. Personally, if it were me, blood is thicker than step-blood. But, ultimately, you should chose based on who has the greater need, if that can be determined.
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I would guess the person whose happines you would most want to consider would be your spouse. What would s/he like you to do?
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Tell them both about your problem and if one of them says: "you should go to the other." then it is her you attend, if they both say that then it is the one who needs you most and the other would understand because she has already said you should be with the other..........but if they both say: "me" then you choose the neediest and explain to the other :o)
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I would go to the one that asked you to first. Yea that is a hard Q!!
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I have a step-daughter and nieces and im close to both, im guessing your niece has a mother and if your step daughter looks to you as her mother then i think its lovely that she wants you there,putting my-self in your shoes i would pick my step daughter as every daughter wants her mum there on the big day.
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i would tell them that i was going to flip a coin.
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I would tell them both that they are going to need to coordinate between them. Otherwise, let the chips fall where they may.
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hang loose, keep a bag packed and wait until you hear from the one who goes into labor first - or you could flip a coin
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G'day Snakelover, Thank you for your question. I would speak to both of them and make sure that they both have people there for them. Then I would make sure that I visit them both within the week if at all possible so that neither of them is left out. Regards
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Something tells me that If i raised my stepdaughter, I would go there. Can your niece find her mother maybe? If I didn't raise my stepdaughter, than I would probably go with the niece.
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