I have been going out with a girl for a year and we live together. She broke up with me in the 1st few weeks of the relationship but we got back together three days later. She just told me that in that time she slept with someone else. Should
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well that kinda sucks. it's up to you to decide what you want to do with the relationship and whether or not you can forgive her or trust her, the relationship for the time that you were together etc etc. techically you weren't together in the time but there's obviously still some violation of trust. it's completely up to you and you'd be justified with whatever you choose. goodluck
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Your call buddy. Sounds like she broke up with you just to sleep with someone and feel justified in doing it. Personally I couldn't stay with someone like that.
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What is the question?
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Get rid of her!
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get rid of her she did it onecs she may do it again
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Well, look at it this way. How long did it take before YOU slept with her? Was it in 3 days? If it was then now that you are one year down the track it shouldn't matter. BUT IF IT EVER HAPPENS AGAIN DITCH HER. If it took much longer for you to start sleeping together, then that's just no on! Also, if you consider it a problem either way - you should end the relationship. You can have a relationship with an unsettled event like this having taken, and it still is in the back of you mind. The other thing is - did you beg her to come back when you had that break up? Was is you who asked her to come back? If it was - then you gotta get out. You made a big mistake. It's not about how much you want a girl to be with you - its about how much the girl wants to be with you.
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well you need to talk to her at least shes told you so thats some respect she has! it sounds like a one nite stand she may have been upset from the break up and seeked comfort! yes she ended it but it could have been for lots of different reasons if she was scared of the feelings she had then give her a chance! she was only seeing gow she really felt as your back together shes made her choice! talk to her about it if shes sorry she may never do it again
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It's been a year. Why worry about it now? You were not together when she did it, were you? And did you sleep with nobody else during that time? She should have just kept her mouth shut imo. But since she just HAD to tell you about it, she is either working on dumping you or she thinks being honest is that important. Find out which it is and then decide if you want to continue the relationship. If she has been faithful to you since it happened, I'd let it go.
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your an interesting person. here is a question you asked earlier today. Am i having a misscarrage? i think im about 1 month and last night my husband adn i had aggressive sex, and since then ive had a horrible pain in my stomach and in my bladder area. i went to the ER and they said everythign was ok, but im in worse pain now Im totaly confused
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Sorry but you took her back after she slept with someone else. If she cheats on you again, you asked for it. You teach people how to treat you.
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Its up to how you feel, ive been told the same thing and I was devisated. She should have told you wen you got back together. She would have told you now either to hurt your feelings or so she could get her secret offher chest so you guys can be together for a long long time, even get married. I wouldnt dump her, but tell her that it kind of hurt your feelings a little. If she's worth it she wont just laugh in your face or get angry, but she'll explain herself and hopfully that makes you feel a little more stable in your relationship. You should also ask her wat she wants out of the relationship.
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Seems like she specifically broke up with you for the sole purpose of sleeping with someone else. And she's telling you almost a year later. I'd be pissed!
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its up to you how you are going to handle this, but you can't hide from it, and you can't let her off easy. No one should get off easy guy or girl. She did tell you, so that was big of her, but there is a reason the fessed up. You have to get her to talk about it. Not details about what happened, that is the past, just why she did it, and if she ever talked to the guy after you got back together. and why she told you. then you can decide what you should do. no one should feel trapped in a relationship.
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So? You were on a break, remember?
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It all depends on how you feel about her and how strong your love is for her. I still think it's low for what she did. It doesn't matter how long the break-up lasted. If she is serious about making the relationship work the second time around, why bring it up now? It's not exactly lying or being deceitful by not telling you because what she did in that time really isn't about you. But now she has turned it to be about you. Why did she want you to know anyways? If "guilt" is her answer then she must have plenty of other things to feel "guilty" about. Which means she's not ready to be in a serious relationship with you if she has so many things she's done that she feels guilty about. This one being one of them.
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If I heard her say "....and I slept with someone in that 3 days" I'd tell her to piss off. I wouldnt allow her back in my life if I were you.
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shit happens yawl were broken up i don't think you should hold her to that
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it takes alot of guts to tell someone you love that...obviously she really loves you, or else she wouldnt have told you....give her a chance!
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