ANSWERS: 2
  • If this was sent to me, I'd presume that she didn't want a relationship, she just wanted non-commital sex, and that's what her ex was offering, so she got back with him. Sorry. I suppose at least she told you the truth, instead of the whole, it's not you it's me shite.
  • She doesn't want friendship. She doesn't want romance. She doesn't want to know how you are. She doesn't want entanglements, or for you to know her. She's making it really really simple. All she wanted was a f*** buddy. It was basically just mutual masturbation, to get each of your physical sexual needs met. Why is she sending this now, after breaking up with you? She doesn't want you to pursue her. This wasn't the love of your life, so be cool. She's giving you a really simple way to look at it, where it doesn't feel like you've lost a whole lot. It's her way of saying it wasn't a big deal, don't feel like it was a big deal, no hard feelings, just move on. An older person is often more accepting of things just as they are. That's that, and get on with life. She may be worried about your young age, if you have enough composure and control to just say oh well, and move on. So the message is a huge favor to you. It is a gift. It tells you there are no hard feelings, everything is clean and clear, and don't worry about anything. Let's both appreciate it and move on. The graceful thing to do is find a new girlfriend.

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