How does anal sex feel and what happens afterwards? do you bleed? do you have to use a condom? some said that his member gets dirty when pulls out? is that true? what does the girl have to do to be prepared?

Anal sex can feel good, if you are prepared when you have it. Its not something that you can just force your partner to do. There are so many things that can happen with Anal sex, and if you arent careful you can contract diseases if you do it with someone that isnt clean.Condoms are advisable, but not everyone uses them. I dont know about everyone that does it has bleeding, although for first timers ,it can be a bit uncomfortable. You want to take it nice and slow, and make sure you are both ready by maybe having foreplay before hand and vaginal sex first before going into anal sex, and start off by using one finger inserting it into the rectum ,and see how she handles that from there. I suggest using lots of lube, i prefer using the lube called "play", it works really well, and you can find it at your local drug store. I would also advise that yes, make certain that your partners bowels are on the empty side before you have anal intercourse, so you dont have that chance of getting dirty. It dosent always happen that way though, each person is different.If you are giving the girl lots of foreplay, and making love to her, and she is really into you, then that is the type of mind set she needs to be into to allow you into that part of her body. Let her know when you are going to do that as well, as not to startle her, because if she is not ready, and you havent used any lube, you could hurt her, and then the chances of her ever learning just how good Anal sex can be , will be down the drain. Anal Sex, is just like being a virgin in a sense all over again, and after doing it a couple of times, she will find that there is also a couple of nerves in the anus that are as arousing as the nerves in the vagina that give her an orgasm. Check into askmen.com. They will tell you alot about it. I am a woman,and can tell you that with my ex, I would never have anal sex, because he would never prepare me for it, and it was always a bad thing with him- he didnt know the right way to handle the situation. With my new guy, I have really learned alot.

Use a condom for safety reasons, if your are not poz and he may or may not be. Depending on how tight you are, as far as bleeding, and how big he is. His member will be slightly dirty, he will smell of your insides. To get prepared, smear lube around your anus, and inside with a finger or two and twirl it around. If you want insert a dildo for a while. Now enjoy yourself with him. It feels great to be penetrated in the anus, you may feel like you need to go afterwards, depends.

Im not going to lie. At first, it hurts but after time it feel really good. I first tried to have anal sex with my boyfriend about 4 months ago (yes its a working progress) It was painful at first and he could barely get the tip of his penis inside before i pulled away in pain. He was very supportive and patient until one day after alot of patient trying for weeks and months, the foreplay was so arousing that we slowly began to do anal and it just went in little by little. After a few minutes it felt amazing. The kind of orgasm you have from anal is very intense and different than vaginal orgasm. It really felt amazing. It is also because we are a very closecouple and very much in love which is very important for it to feel good. If it is someone you don't really care about or a stranger it will probably be a bad experience. It all about relaxation and feeling comfortable so that your muscles are not tense and you can enjoy. It important to take your time and not force it. It does help to see your partner enjoying it so much that his arousal will make you feel good too and relaxed. Its a great experience with the right person. Also positions are important. I find that when Im on top it feels and goes in much better. This is on top facing him and also not facing him and leaning back. Take your time with it and you will see it can be really great for both of you.

Well...

Here is what I do... I love anal and its feelings but I have this phobia about dirty... so I do an enema... Just the standard type you get at the drug store.

If I know my b/f well then I'm the sick patient. He's the RN giving me the enema... hee hee... I usually get my temperature taken too!

Then yes, empty. Then it is girls fun time. I get to lay there on my side while he plays with my anus... First fingers, lots of lube getting pushed up me, more fingers, next a nice medium dildo, more lube, then bigger dildo etc..

Just before we try to slip up me I lube him up real well. Then its part time. The lube usually makes him slide up slow and smooth however with so much in me sometimes it squirts out a bit making a little sound... Nothing to worry about or be embarrassed about.

That it is it. When he comes out he is always clean. condom is a great idea if you are even the least bit worried.

After effects... Most embarrassing one is gas... The action of him pushing up me often traps gas inside. Sometimes he'll pull out and go in again, that means more gas.. Gas is gonna come out... deal with it... Its no big deal.

Pain, not really. A little maybe.

Blood. Usually not. Sometimes a little if I was tight but never more than a drop or two.

Weird feeling when cum comes out... It definitely is weird as it comes out of you. So plan on some toilet time.

To dicksmageee... If you are bleeding that much and spraying blood everywhere then you are doing something majorly wrong!!!

use lots of lub, start off by going to the bathroom. Once empty, there is less of a chance to pull out dirty. like I said, use lots of lub, start with a finger, and work your way up to 2 then 3. Once your relaxed, and can handle it, use more lub, and a condom, unless your married to him. If you take it slow, you sould not bleed. You have to tell your partner, if you say stop, he must stop, and if you say wait, he waits, and if you say no more or take it out, that he dose. Tell him you may not let him go until climax the first few times, it may take some time to get to that point. A nother reason for the condom, you can pull it off, and then finnish in the front, with out having to get up and wash off his member. Alway wash or clean after being in your ass, and before it enters the front. You can also finger yourself when he not around, so you can get yourself ready, that way you have all the control.

Had this for the first time a week ago. Now I cant get enough! It feels fantastic. No I didnt bleed. We didnt use a condom as we're married and therefore didnt feel that there was any risk. No his dick is not dirty when he pulls out, but he goes and washes quite soon after as its obvious it will have bacteria on it, after where its just been, lol. A girl has to be very comfortable and relaxed with her partner so that she can dictate how far in they go for her to feel comfortable. Once you're relaxed about it, you'll find you can let them go deeper and harder and enjoy it yourself.

it feels painful possibly in the first time if yr partner is huge . the bigger , the more painful . there can be a period that it's a mix of pain and pleasure . psychological and physical pleasure , with practice there is less and less pain until it's only pleasure .

it feels very BIG feeling , not only stuffed , but also it's a very dominant feeling that nothing is alike it . it makes all other forms of sex pretty pale in comparison . very intimate too . and the ultimate giving / giving in and surrender.

there are a few things that change the feeling : in vs . out , and fast vs . slow . and also thick vs. thin 'object' inserted . each can yield such different sensations ! . some like it hard and pounding , some like the fullness but stillness ( butt plug anyone ? ) and some maybe like vibration , or fisting , or fingering or licking .

Bled only once ,
feces on pulling out only once out of 1000's of times . no big deal .

the girl has to empty and really relax , she will be more receptive to this if her anus is licked and fingered (1 through 3 or 4 fingers ) , for a long period of time , until she craves a penis in there

I am only 16 goin on 17 and i have had anal sex it feels great but you know i am a teenager i go for that kind of stuff my mom knows i do this also and she does care. MY reaction to this was that i'd never do this because ur ass is supposed to be an exit not an enter. So my boy friend had asked me about it and i told him ill think of it. Well i put thought into it. we couldn't do it the first time because it wouldn't go in . barely the head of his penis. So we tried it again later on and i was amazed by how much pain could be so pleasurable.

I had stood up and i bent over a table to me thats the best way. Now i kno im really kinky so i didn't bother to try and wait. I had him go in slowly and told him when to go fast . I didn't hesitate and neither did he. he had pounded me so hard i was screamin in happyness. =]] He told me his legs went numb at first but they came to. thats wat i think about anal sex!

u bleed everywere on the bed in a chair on the couch on the roof. in a car on a bar near and far you squirt bloooood everywere. I once filled a 20 once cup of blood

Most women and girls told me that it hurts and that they have a quite unpleasant feeling.
But after some training there are women and girls who like it.
As a man I do not like it because it is not a real pleasure for me to put my penis into a bottomhole.
I tried a few times but I found it was too painful for me and so I do not like it.
Quite often it can happen that you bleed because a penis is just too big for a bottomhole.

So, I for myself I only use my tongue if a girl or woman wants to have anal sex. With my tongue i can not hurt anybody and so women have a better feelig when they feel my tongue inside their bottomhole.

My boyfriend and i tried anal sex for the first time together thursday. It wasnt his first time but it was mine. He was gentle and talked be through it which made it easier and better. It didnt hurt as much as i thought it would. The only thing i didnt enjoy was the after math. I of course had to use the bathroom after and it went on for the rest of the night, i would use the toilet and instead of fecies coming out it would be...clearish white stuff with some red in it...im not sure if it was seman or regular anal juices or what, but i dont know it was more like skin...then anything else? Not sure...any suggestions about the aftermath i have described?