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by Dazed and Confused on January 16th, 2008

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Is there a special someone in your life that you've never gotten over? (Mine was my jr high boyfriend - 25 years later and my heart still flutters when I hear his name.) And I wonder why one person can have such an effect on you your entire life?

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  • by The Reverend Soleil on January 16th, 2008

    The Reverend Soleil

    Yes, there was.

    Her name was Camille, and I sat next to her in English class in high school. I was crazy about her, but never got the nerve to tell her how I felt.

    She and I eventually went our separate ways after high school, and I eventually met someone else and got married, but not a day went by that I didn't think of Camille.

    Fast forward to 12 years later, when who should call me from out of the clear blue, but my beloved Camille! (I was in the process of separating from my first wife at the time.) We get to corresponding and talking over the phone, and I finally get the courage to tell her how I always felt. And it turned out that she felt the same about me!

    "So," I say, "where do we go from here? I'm still living in California, and you're in Kentucky..."

    That's when she tells me that she's been offered a job in Anchorage, Alaska. She asks if I'd be willing to fly up and spend a week with her there; and if it looks like a good match, would I be willing to move up there with her?

    Would I?

    That was more than 6 years ago. We're now married, with a beautiful little boy who's nearly five and a half. So don't let anyone tell you that those sorts of romances only happen in the movies...

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  • by asweetguy4u2know saya R.I.P Nelson on January 29th, 2008

    asweetguy4u2know saya R.I.P Nelson

    Her name was Edna. We met about 6 years ago. We were both in the same training class for a job. It was practically love at first sight.

    She was everything I had always dreamed of in a woman beautiful sweet kind hearted beautiful eyes pretty smile very spiritual great sense of humor treated everyone around her well.

    We became very close friends real fast and within a couple of months without realizing it I was falling inlove with her. I kept denying it because I thought I wasn't good enough for her plus I was nearly 15 years older than her and was scared she would see me as just some dirty old man looking to get some young booty.

    About a year after we met she got me in a corner one day in the break room and told me she had heard a rumor going around that I had a crush on her and wanted to know if it was true. Like a fool I denied it.She was too smart for me though and told me that if it was the truth that it would be ok because she kinda liked me too.

    I finally admitted to it and we began dating steadily. We had a beautiful relationship for 2 years. I proposed to her on our second anniversary which was valentines day and she happily accepted.

    We began planning our new life together not realizing that a little over a month from then she would be taken away suddenly and very tragically.

    It's nearly 3 years since she's been gone and I am still very much inlove with her and don't know if I will ever fully get over her enough to move on with my life.

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  • by Munchkin on March 4th, 2008

    Munchkin

    Yeah his names Anton. I went out with him in school for a few months. We went our seperate ways because I thought he was getting bored with me. Five years later I climbed out of my shell and started accepting myself for who I was and morphed into my clothing style which is like pin up ( since I love pin up pics ). He saw me out one night...completely out of the blue and said that I had changed a lot. He said that I was beautiful. I still and will always love him....if anything comes of it then that would be like fate to me.

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  • by Someguy on January 29th, 2008

    Someguy

    Yes. Kate. I dated her during and after high school. She was going through a rough time and ended up dumping me. I went off to school and when we met back in few years and realized things were still good between us, she had gotten pregnant and I was engaged. If she had not been pregnant, I would have easily dumped my fiancé for her.
    We still talk about once a month and she is doing well and so am I, but I still wonder what would have happened if... She is beautiful in every way and has two great kids.

    I really did love her. I had an engagement ring in my pocket the day she dumped me, so I never had any "closure". She dumped me for no good reason and she admits that now. Part of my heart is stuck on her and can't shake it loose.

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  • by Zack on January 29th, 2008

    Zack

    Yep and she comes around to AB every once in a while and I'm still not over her. Hell of a thing.

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