When you start dating a girl who still wants to be friends with her ex-boyfriend, is it reasonable as her boyfriend, to ask her to cut all contact from her ex? And to ask her to end her friendship with her ex-boyfriend?
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I know alot of girls who are still, just friends with their exes. But I know some who tell him they just want to be friends.. then talks about how she still has feelings for him.. I think it's really up to you & If You think she still has feelings for him or not. & How much you trust her..
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On the one hand, she should be able to maintain a simple friendship with an ex, but on the other hand, it is often a strong temptation to resume what they had in the past ... it is recommended that the two just get over each other and move on, but it is not a mandatory thing, some times friendships will last ... NO !!! ... It is not resonable for anyone to try to control who their partner is or is not friends with ... as long as both her and her ex realize that their relationship has changed to a simple friendship and they are both mature and wise enough to keep it that way, there should not be a problem ... she should, however, put a priority on developing her new relationship with her new boyfriend.
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i was friends with my ex ex when i was still with my ex, get it? Anyway, there's always flirting, not on my part but my ex ex did it alot. plus, it's kinda awkward if i had slept with him, which i didn't. But anyway, i think it's normal to feel like this, i guess you're a little insecure, but your gf should understand you, cuz if you were best friends with ur ex then i'm pretty sure she'll freak. luck!
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I'm running up the same tree right now.. where does your relationship presently stand? If you don't mind me asking...
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So I am like the girl in this situation. I am now with an amazing guy. but all through my school years and a few years after I was with my ex. and we were always on and off! for soem reason i stillw anted to be mates with him, i keep saying it was because he was such a massive part of my life. my current boyfriend never liked it. but he was never mean about it he kinda just would say "who was that on the phone" and then kinda be sad but not too bad! i was never the one to start the conversation with my ex, or to msg him first or ring! but my bf didnt like it so if i did get a phone call i would not answer it and if i did i started telling him to stop calling, this is when my ex started telling me he still had feelings for me! so then i definately stopped all communication! and then not long ago my bf's ex started ringing him adn msging him adn we seen her out adn she wouldnt leave him alone - and it hurt me so much to see, so now i know ho whe felt and i feel horrible for even trying 'the friends' thing out! if you tell her it hurts you, she should respect you enough to slow down the communication and eventually stop i hope!
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