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by lizizhere on January 6th, 2008

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Its only cheating if you get caught, any truth to this statement? I had a guy tell me once when I caught him cheating that he felt the only thing he done wrong was tell me the truth, like that should've made it better. Have you ever had this happen?

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  • by Nelson - Jetpacking from bed on January 6th, 2008

    Nelson - Jetpacking from bed

    If I poke a stick up my butt and no one is there, I still put a stick up my butt.

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  • by bye bye on June 26th, 2009

    bye bye

    It's wrong either way and odds are you'll eventually get caught.

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  • by Anony on January 6th, 2008

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    Cheating is cheating.

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  • by Anonymous on January 6th, 2008

    Anonymous

    That statement he made to you told you what a creep he was............he was not worth the breath to respond to. I have had the experience that some men think it is ok to lie and is expected of them....they too are not worth the breath to waste responding

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  • by Lion Heart sleeps on June 26th, 2009

    Lion Heart sleeps

    What did you mean? lol

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  • by cofe is grateful today on June 26th, 2009

    cofe is grateful today

    I don't believe that because you still have to answer to yourself. And I know that for me, I am harder on myself than pretty much anyone else can be.

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  • by twist and shout on June 26th, 2009

    twist and shout

    No its still wrong just you cares!!

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  • by A on May 19th, 2009

    A

    Of course it's still cheating. Should we kill him and say it's not murder until we get caught? Pfft. Of course not.

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  • by FauxLo on January 7th, 2008

    FauxLo

    This has never happened to me, but I kind of get it... and I kind of don't. Some folks can't help but cheat. If I'm playing a game and KNOW that I can't get caught cheating... I do it. I totally cheat. Never let me be the banker in Monopoly because I take out loans all the time. I think folks think along these lines when it comes to life and they do whatever they feel they can get away with. You know?

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  • by asweetguy4u2know saya R.I.P Nelson on January 6th, 2008

    asweetguy4u2know saya R.I.P Nelson

    He and every other man that thinks like him should be taken out back and shot. Ok well maybe that's a little too extreme but so is that statement.

    Cheating is cheating whether or not you get caught. That's like saying if I walked into a bank and robbed it and never got caught by the cops that I didn't really rob that bank.


    He was just trying to justify his actions and make himself feel less guilty for what he did to you. Be glad you caught him and found out what an ass he really was before it was too late.

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  • by Jade on January 6th, 2008

    Jade

    That statement is pure baloney. Cheating is cheating, whether you get caught or not. No, I have never had anyone tell me that. And it's probably a good thing, but I have known people with that philosophy. That and 'it's only cheating if YOU do it'.

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  • by Mushen on January 6th, 2008

    Mushen

    listen, we all fall for that line at least once in our lives and then we learn and feel idiots. He is talking a load of bollocks and I do believe that is what you are currently in the process of learning - the light bulb in your brain is switching on is it not. We have all been there - the upside is you should not ever fall for this line again and that, is a good thing - so really, you could say, he's done you a favour! Remember the motto: Not all men are annoying, some of them are dead.

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  • by Anonymous on May 18th, 2009

    Anonymous

    He has no integrity, no morals, and no respect for you. He is a jerk if he thinks its okay to cheat! What a loser, leave him!

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  • by Celeste: It is what it is. Like it or not on June 26th, 2009

    Celeste: It is what it is. Like it or not

    What the hell kind of warped thinking is that?!?*+++++*

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