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As much as you'd rather not admit it to yourself, your feelings probably have more to do with jealousy than actually wanting them back. There's a quote that sort of explains it. "there are many things that we would throw away if we were not afraid that others might pick them up. -oscar wilde" How you stop obsessing is you move on too. Find someone with similar interests. Dont expect to fall in love right away, its a slow process. But try to avoid being around your ex, even though it may hurt. No matter what you do, its going to hurt, but it'll stop hurting a little at a time. Good luck, darling!
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You lost your chance. You need to move on or at least try to.
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I know its hard. I am about to do what you did and I know full well that my boyfriend is most extremely popular with everyone. He's generous, handsome and very kind. It's just an enormous shame that we are not the right match. Perhaps it was the same for you? Even if the person is incredible, I suppose we somehow need to find it within us to be happy for them...that they are happy-though this hurts tremendously. My boyfriend already has a bunch of girls lined up, waiting on his Facebook that I don't even know. They just sit there waiting for me to be expunged-like vultures! How horribly desperate they seem. Its hard not to think about how the guy is probably kissing a new girl just like he did with you that one time and how you feel like your heart will be burned right out of your body. Eventually the pain becomes so great that you begin to feel numb...and that pain leads to detachment from these desires. It is excruciating...and I hold my breath as I am about to fall into this horror of ordeals. There is nothing like losing people we love...but if he really loves you...maybe he will leave her and come back to you.
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