My girlfriend has a problem with cocaine. it started last month, she was doing it once or twice a month if. but now its like everyday. should I stay and try to be there for her, or let her go.? she makes too much money. but why waste it on that.
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Try to help her, but if she doesn't listen then I would leave her. She isn't worth it.
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As hard as it is....she is lost and you need to get away from her drugging. There is nothing you can do for her. She has to want to stop and it does not sound that is going to happen. She will soon be spending all her good income on that drug. She will have nothing. You need to find another direction for your life. Lean on friends and family.
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Talk to her about it and suggest politely that she get some help if you think it has gone to far. If she really loves you,she will do it. I am just warning you she will probably feel violated that you would even suggest such a thing and may even try to cover it up, making excuses for why she does it or trying to hide it behind your back. It is truly up to her and if she does seek help she might relapse depending on how far the addiction has gone.The question is how much do you really love her and are you willing to stay with her knowing this? If you truly love her, you will stick by her side if and when she seeks treatment.
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Even if she does make a lot of money, once addicted to coke, it will make you broke as it sniffs the loot outta your wallet.
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my girl parties with people who pretend to be gay, i was with her for 5 years she called it off cos i dont listen, i dont listen to people who are out of their minds on coke i mean
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She has a problem... If you love her, please don't let this go to waste. Help her thru it or get her help. If she won't quit regardless of what you try, I would hate to see such a relationship go to waste. If you love her and wish her the best even if she leaves you, I say it's worth a try to help her, man.
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do what you see fit. I would not date someone who did drugs to include alchohol and tobacco. you knew she did it occasionaly and occasional use turns into constant use. you decide what you are willing to fight for or put up with.
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Bad news. Move on. She's wasting her life. Don't let her waste yours too.
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dont try to tie down all the good party chicks!!
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i just left a cute little blue blood raleigh socialite who "does not have a problem " with alcohol and cocaine . she bankrupted her builder husband with his assistance . he wrote $180,000 bad check for which he is now liable . the little debutante cannot make rent . she has no car . yet she still gives me grief when i order pabst blue ribbon to save a few bucks . my bills are paid yet she feels a nicer car than my 1993 landcruiser would be more tolerable . carolina country club had to be given up with the separation and bankrupt marriage . somehow she still finds a way to justify boozing and after- parties at fine homes inside the beltline . i have partied in my life ...plenty .i am not on a crusade . i just cannot watch another friend descend into this abyss . lies ,deceit , and an erosion of meaningful life are not for me .
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i would leave she will only start to ruin your life to
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Let her go? It seems to me that she has already gone. Gone into the land of drug use and she probably isn't worrying about "being there" for you. If you've already told her how you feel and it continues then go live your life and leave her with the one she loves. If she is going to get over it she will get over it the same way she got into it..alone.
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if she gonna keep it going on tell her u cant be with her
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you are actually asking ?? wow.... okay. like you said: Is a problem. wich must be fixed. and seems like she is addicted and needs help though she wont say it or ask for it, she does... she needs your help if you really love her.. you should help her get out of it and back to non drug life. well all im saying is.. she might not be asking for your help but she needs it. and you should help her the best you can. after that battle and if it works and you win you will have a happy life. she will be thankful to you. if you leave... how do you think her life will go ? she wont be happy... no... this addiction would mostb likely get worse... and in worst case end by her death.......wich you could have prevented. i mean come on! have a heart a warm nice heart. and be a good person. help people.
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