In a way, it seems my mom is taking out her divorce with my father, which isn't finalized, on me. Thanksgiving i spent alone, and Christmas she is taking my brother out of town to my uncles...what should I do? I'm going to be alone again.

aww thanks :)...my dad will be home but he is a scrooge on christmas every year...it was never a good year for him when he was little...and he has lost both of his parents and he lost his mom, my favorite grandmother around this time...so it's hard for him.

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by Anonymous on December 16th, 2007

I think this is a great idea. Hope you have a great holiday with friends. It's gotta be a real tough time for her right now.

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by Anonymous on December 16th, 2007

yea, i will, thanks :)

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by Anonymous on December 16th, 2007

thanks, great idea...but no friends with single moms, haha

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by Anonymous on December 19th, 2007

I'm 21...my friend said i could spend christmas with her and her family....but i may just suck it up and hang out at the house....i do need some me time anyways!

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by Anonymous on December 17th, 2007

Well it is ok to hang around..however on Xmas Eve and Day please spend the time at your friends.

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by Anonymous on December 18th, 2007

I dont know, I almost feel as though I may not even want to spend it with anyone, I'm not suicidal or anything, I just want to curl up and watch movies....well yea it will be lonely, but I am so tired of having to find other places to go on holidays at 21...i mean thanksgiving i had at my best friends house after i got off work....and my parents were out of town....then christmas comes and i am just so over having to go and spend it with people that aren't my family...but i better get used to it because it doesn't seem like mine it going to be all happy and jolly anymore.

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by Anonymous on December 18th, 2007

Hey you aren't the only one that will be spending it alone. I am too...so if you are on here..you will probably see me also. The thing is you are now a young adult. You might think about getting your own apartment and get out of the house so that you are not seeing and hearing everything. Get a room mate. Get independent of your parents. I think you would be much happier that way. It is time to move forward with your life. You mentioned you worked...so make the next step to your independence.

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by Anonymous on December 18th, 2007

yea i know, but i got stuck with too many expenses so i have to pay those off in order to move out...

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by Anonymous on December 18th, 2007

You know...and I tell you this from experience...if you really want to get out and have your own place..you will find a way! Where there is a will there is a way.

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by Anonymous on December 18th, 2007

i know...very true... thank :)

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by Anonymous on December 18th, 2007

she invited me, but she knows there is no way i can get off of work...but she leaves anyways...it's getting to be old.

thank you

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by Anonymous on December 16th, 2007

aww thanks haha

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by Anonymous on December 16th, 2007