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You're sad because of the change. You have been so used to him being there for you and you were so used to the routine that you two had, that you're lost. You're going to be this way for a little while until you get in to your own routine.
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i agree the change can hurt but look at your boy friend and i mean look hard. relationships can be saved by this look at him and imagine life without him. look at him now now look at the reason you two got together. try to make a night repeat your first with him
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You have spent 4 years of your life with someone you love. Its normal to feel sadness at the end of a relationship- knowing that its the right thing to do, to break up, doesnt make it hurt less or less sad. Just grieve for the loss of your relationship and take all the time you need. Don't ever listen to people who tell you "get over it" either. You will get over it when you are good and ready and if you never do, thats fine too. Its a testiment to the feelings you had for another.
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Don't think so..... If it's the best for both of you guess you are doing the right thing. May feel sad now but may feel happy about it later .
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4 years is a good chunk of time to have spent intimately with someone. Even if you are happy, or feeling relieved about ending it, it's only natural to be sad that this is ending. I believe in general, people get in relationships, hoping for "the right one". When an attempt "fails" it's only natural to be sad. I think that once you've given this some time, you'll feel glad that you moved on and will be happy again in no time. Good luck!
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Hey i know how your feeling, my girlfriend just broke up with me after 2 years. I love her with all my heart and she was the only one for me, but what hurts me more is the fact she dated some guy straight after we broke up. Your probably so sad because what you and him had was the thing that made you most happiest while you were together, now that its gone then that happiness isnt there anymore. If its best for you both then no, you wont be making a mistake. Youll come round soon enough, i feel for you. Good luck. :)
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Your mind is telling you one thing. Your heart is telling you something different. Why the breakup? Once you depart each other, things will never be the same, due to each going their separate ways. Too much time apart, makes for suspicious accusations. Stay together. it may be the best move you did not make
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its hard to let go of what you've become used to but new horizons await listen to the voices of your next adventure whispering in the wind trust in your heart if you carry around negative emotions of your relationship partner a wall will encase your soul to break down this entrapment you must take leave of any angst or negative thoughts you may hold of either of you this will open a new pathway to your soul and will encourage the universe to enter and support you on a new quest go girl good luck travel with lightness and haste the world awaits you much love to you in your quest for joy
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I'm going through this right now... and I know its the best thing but it's so hard to leave someone I care so deeply for. We just weren't meant to be together... it's no mistake, it's just life. So my plan is to be friends... I don't want to see him with any other girls for a while I don't think I could take it. But when it comes down to a mutual breakup don't let it destroy you. You have been best friends for four years... don't throw it completely out because if you were friends before, there is no reason for you to not be friends after just because it didn't work romantically.
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