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i have been through this...some friends just get busy in their lives and they forget about you..there is nothing we can do just let them go...may be one day she would realise that how important you were
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if they don't want to make up there's not much you can do ...I was in a situation very much the same as you and we never got the chance in the end to make up ...she died and now I live with the empty feeling of guilt that will stay with me forever... so please try I know its hard but even if you post them a card and just say your sorry and then if they still don't at least you tried...good luck
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i am going through the same thing right now with my ex best friend. ya know you can only try to get there friendship back. In the end it will never be the same friendship as it was in the beginning. and if she wont forgive you why would you set there and and dwell on it it is not your fault. you tried to talk it out.
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I'm in a similar situation. My bestfriend/girlfriend wants nothing to do with me. I do not want to let her go but I do not know what to do to make things better. She won't answer my phone calls, the only email she replied was to say she didn't want anything to do with me. I'm feeling very hurt and sad not having her in my life. I admit that I am to blame for us being in this situation. We had an argument and I couldn't contain myself I said some hurtful things. I have apologized several times but it doesn't seem to be helping. I deeply miss her and love her.
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i am in same situation as well,i ll say to u just ignore her thu its hard but this is the way to come out,try to talk to u and make urself buzy and think abt her just leave her plz.
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This is hard, but I would let it go. Maybe she'll come around. I am on the flip side of it, I ended a 15 year friendship because she did some really rotten things to me over an extended period of time. I'll never be friends with her again, it was too much. Try to reflect on what happened, and try to learn something from it.
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Thats a sad story, but to answer your question... wait what was the question?
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At this point, what have you left to lose? Keep trying. You never know. Good luck.
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I would let her go. If you have spent all that time to make amends and there was no response from her, then obviously she has moved on with her life, and it is time you do the same. It's just not worth spending all that time and effort when she isn't going to at least have the common decency and tell you that she doesn't think that she doesn't want to be friends again and be forthright, instead of ignoring you. It sounds like to me that she forgot about you along time ago, which i can only imagine that would be devastating. Also it doesn't sound like she cherished any of the times you had together, so i would let her go and continue with my life. Don't worry, you will have a friend who will always be there for you and will respect you and will always be considerate of you and your feelings. You deserve way better than that. Just hang in there, take care and the best of luck!
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